Hello seddit.

After a longterm relationship ended I hit the gym, created a facebook account and found seddit. Now I would rank myself as a novice In terms of "know how" from the teachings of seddit community. My goal here has not been able to recite openers or become the master. I have enjoyed the wisdom and experience you guys have had to offer and I now have a different outlook on my interactions with other people and have broken through some personal barriers and for this I thank you.

Now my current dilemma there is this girl in my class that Is most definitely my type. Now after just noticing her from afar I made some excuse to finally go talk to her. The convo went great just talking about school stuff and things. So I ad this girl on facebook before I make the move to ask her out. Turns out she is in a 3year relationship with some random dude. Now when I found out I kinda just put her out of my mind in the sense of her being a potential target but kept on bumping into her when I got the chance.

Now recently I seam to be getting a lot of attention from her in forms of Facebook texts and talking at school. Now me being as oblivious to hints or IOI's as a brick wall I naturally just think she is being nice or she is just such a open person. This is also what I thought about my X-girlfriend when she basically threw herself onto me and it still took me a month to figure that out.

Now this is not oneitis I do go out and try to become a better person with the help of the seddit community.

My 2 options as I can see them are:

Open door nr 1 and enter the friendzone and just keep on chatting with her on friendly notes and do nothing on my part and take no risk to damage our little friendship.

Door nr 2. Nuke it from orbit. Say something so there is no doubt in her mind or my mind that I like her in a certain way. She probably would not speak to me much again if she is very invested in her current Bf.

Door nr3: Is there a third option that would not leave the earth scorched? Maybe something with finesse?

TL;DR: Girl at school I like and have created a small friendship with has a boyfriend. Should I tell her how I feel even tho its a longshot?