So I started going out and approaching women at night a few weeks ago. So far I’ve gone out twice and talked to a handful of women and gotten three numbers. I’d text the next day or even later that night so they wouldn’t forget me, but none of them ever respond. How am I supposed to get them to actually respond to me? Why do they give me their number if they don’t intend on answering? I’ve read people say you should try to bring them back that night but A) I’m still not used to all this and I feel like I wouldn’t be able to pull if I tried B) I don’t want to be seen as that guy that’s just trying to sleep with women when I want something more than just a fling C) I’ve had sex on first dates through Tinder but it almost never works out and I like to build at least some kind of connection but it seems like women don’t want to give you the time of day unless you try for sex ASAP. Whatever happened to waiting a couple dates first? Like I’m not trying to wait forever but damn, it just feels like if you’re not having sex within the first few hours of meeting a girl, they’re not going to have a strong enough attraction to want to see you again.