Here's a question for the more experienced guys regarding non-reaction and outcome independence. I understand the value of these states of mind when dealing with approach anxiety and rejection.. however what is the function of this when dealing with positive and validating attention from women? Is there a reason to deny oneself pleasure for some ultimately stronger end gain? The chemicals my brain produces when things are working out the way I'd like them to with a woman are so powerful that I find it difficult to not get addicted to the feeling. Any advice is greatly appreciated.

tl;dr: Do you deny yourself the happiness and joy you get from positive female attention? How do you keep from becoming hooked to this attention?