On a date with a woman quite a few years younger than myself and she dropped the creep-bomb on me when I made a comment describing a specific (non-lewd) part of the female anatomy as sexy. My immediate reaction was "pfft, no that's all in your head". She kept referencing that comment and called me creepy a few more times throughout the course of the night to which I just laughed it off and basically treated her as if she was just being silly. By the end of the date she conceded that it was indeed just in her head because previously she had dated a guy that fetishized that part of the female body which had genuinely creeped her out. It's worth noting that her admission came during a particularly hot and steamy makeout.

In the past a comment like that would have taken me out of state and thrown off my game but by remaining unashamed of my sexuality and refusing to let her reframe my statement I had effortlessly turned a potential mood-killer into something that worked in my favor. By the end she was delving into deep conversation with me and trying to decipher what my "type" is. (tangent) My problem is I don't have a type physically, I like attractive women, but to me "type" is more about finding the right personality in a woman not so much physical features. Oddly enough it seems that when a woman has a type she is referring to physical features, yet when a guy refers to type it's more about personality. Does this paradox ring true for anyone else?