One Simple Rule to overcome AA

ThrowawayPUA · 2013-05-17T04:47:56+00:00

I'm not sure I like this "10-10-10" stuff. It is going in your head when that is not where you should be. You should be walking up to the woman and focusing outward on her.

If you focus inward, and ask the "what if she.." questions this article talks about, then your mind is going to come up with some very convincing answers. They will all be reasons you should not approach her, not approach now. And you will believe all of them. And you should believe them, because they are all true for you at that moment. And then ignore them and approach anyway.

Have the anxious thought. Acknowledge it's there, then don't dwell on it, dismiss the thought, and take action. Feel the fear and do it anyway. That moment of anxiety, it's actually your desires, your attraction to the woman, telling you to approach. You will soon learn to use that signal to help you go into action.

ICECREAMTRUCK_ · 2013-05-16T15:48:33+00:00

Great post!

Squand · 2013-05-17T02:22:19+00:00

"You’re not going to remember an awkward conversation from a party ten years ago."

OP underestimates how awkward my interactions get. Not only do I remember she'll remember and it will haunt us till the end of time.

coolcoolthetank · 2013-05-17T00:30:18+00:00

this is really good. thanks for the post

dgafatall · 2013-05-17T02:19:52+00:00

No disrespect, too long. Too much thinking. Just do it.

Gregor0 · 2013-05-17T11:03:03+00:00

This is really unique advice. For people who can't just do it just 'cause, and need some sort of logical justification, (like me), this is such great advice.

Title	One Simple Rule to overcome AA
Author	[deleted]
Upvotes	61
Comments	11
Date	May 16, 2013 1:34 PM UTC (13 years ago)
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