I mean it seems so obvious but looking back, all the girls that I texted lost interest in me because I was texting them way too much and came across as desperate or their texting buddy. I would also become anxious until they responded.

Last straw was a few weeks ago when I was at a rave and this girl was literally offering to have sex with me that tuesday since she wasnt feeling well that day and I managed to fuck it up by texting her too much