Overthinking not getting a reply

STD_Tyler · 2020-01-15T07:31:29+00:00

You sound like a needy mofo , she is your only option , and she knows that. And that's a turn off. Go out talk to 1000's of girls , date multiple girls and suddenly these bipolar bitches will start to chase you.

It is your fault for not taking action, not hers...

wildtonicintherain · 2020-01-15T08:42:13+00:00

I think a girl will always reply eventually if she’s interested.

WormiestBurrito · 2020-01-15T09:23:34+00:00

First, give her a call instead of texting. Keep it brief (no small talk) and stick to making plans. If no answer, then leave a voicemail telling her to call back (dont frame it as a question).

Second, wait a while (a week or more) for a response (to the vm or last text). If you don't get one, send a text setting up plans. Hopefully you seeded some date ideas the last time you went out with her. If not, just send something generic like "Minigolf this Sunday, let's see if you can beat me."

Also, always text with a purpose (making plans), keep texts minimal, and statements > questions. Save chatting for dates. Only chat over text with girls who are relatives, friends you won't ever fuck, or already in an established LTR with you.

bigredten · 2020-01-15T11:31:55+00:00

Develop better boundaries and standards. Be the type of person who doesn't invest time in people, who don't make an effort. Also don't invest time with people who are toxic, and cut them out.

2020-01-15T06:34:02+00:00

I wouldn't text anything since you texted her and she didn't respond. Personally I figured I don't have time for women who are not interested in me. I'm no expert but it took me a year and a half of approaching average 3 women per day, dating, texting and going out to get to the point where I've had enough experiences to know that when a woman is interested she will reach out to you. If she reaches out to you again, set up a time to get with her and have fun. Sadly somehow many men have received the message that we need to chase women when in reality they want to chase us.

I'm still figuring this stuff out yet if I were in your situation I would let her come to you. Coach Corey Wayne, Alpha Male Strategies and Stephiscold on Youtube have helped me have a more effective mindset when it comes to dating and life. Hope this helps you out.

quinnmcd · 2020-01-15T14:44:59+00:00

This post had to be taken down because it appears to be focused on a specific situation or person. While Field Reports deal with specific situations and people, remember that the focus is different:

A field report explains a lesson learned or demonstrates a Seduction concept.
If the point of this post is asking how to get that specific girl, it belongs in AskSeddit.

No worries though! Though the thread has been taken down, any conversations you have started here can still continue, and if you want to PM a mod to get their opinion on this thread, feel free to do so and they will still be able to weigh in.

For next time, remember that posts about a specific situational advice with a specific person are fine as field should be directed to /r/askSeddit, not to be confused with askReddit.

Insaneflirt_max · 2020-01-15T06:10:50+00:00

"did someone kidnap u"

Title	Overthinking not getting a reply
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Date	January 15, 2020 6:03 AM UTC (6 years ago)
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