hii! so, im a young adult female and ive never had a serious boyfriend. i’m good looking, nothing special and there’s definitely better looking people out there but im above average objectively, id say i have a good sense of humour and alright personality. im a huge hopeless romantic and not into flings or short relationships or anything like that, but that’s the only type of thing that seems to come towards me. i also have bpd (which only really shows after some time, and im actively working on it).

the point is, ig for women the perfect bf archetype is like strong, masculine, calm, with some edge, what i wanna ask is what’s the equivalent of that for men?

also sorry if the flair is wrong lmao i can change it 😭