Picking the right wings

telemarketeraddict · 2013-04-03T18:23:56+00:00

Sounds like i'm somewhere between good guy with gf and asshole with gf. I guess which one you want to roll with depends on YOUR personality type.

ArcherTA · 2013-04-03T21:09:07+00:00

If you're picking from that line-up, I guess it'd be #1. As long as you talk out a share system with him you should be okay. #2 and #5 could work. Don't bother with #3 or #4, you'll just cause yourself grief.

A great wing is someone better than you, someone you can observe and learn from. My wing is basically an apprentice of mine, but I still find it fun teaching him. Helps cement things in my mind. It can be a bit of a hindrance, though.

Alternatively, try to find people into pickup! If you can use the seddit locator, go hard.

scubaseduction · 2013-04-04T00:23:47+00:00

ultimately you want someone who's fun and single. as you're new yourself it wouldn't hurt to teach a friend some game and make him be your proper wing man

I know my answer isn't what you're looking for but my wingmen have actually been my best friends. it's best like this because you learn a lot together and you have an actual friendship with the guy so it's someone you can chill out with without hitting on people, whilst still being able to run through all the fun memories you have of hitting on people

my answer is more based on a good quality of life outcome, rather than just girls, but if you jsut want results go for no#1 but don't cry when he steals your girl, ditches you for girls or will even go after girls you really like. I'm not saying all no#1s are arseholes, but if any type from the listed above will do this it's gonna be number one, at least the rest will be more likely to be more of a friend

going on more about no#1 even if he does always go for the hottest one at least some of those girls will have hot friends, and as good as this guy can get he wont always be able to get threesomes every night so you have a chance. also if a wing gets off with his girl, it makes it more likely that you will too, so again don't worry about him succeeding too much as chances are it'll help you

scubaseduction · 2013-04-04T02:16:32+00:00

Depends on the vibe that you bring to the table to be honest. Lets go ahead and analyse which friends would be best for which kind of person you are.

Friend 1 would be great if you were also reasonable looking / worked out somewhat and don't look completely alienated beside your friend. You should both be vibing at the same level as well when it comes to conversations. If you are afraid of him stealing your women, just make some signals that are agreed upon before entering a set. E.g lines you can use during conversation that mean 'help me isolate this one' or something arather.
Friend with a girlfriend would be good if he has read afew PUA guidelines and knows about DHV, neg, has good stories where you are both involved. Also depends on the energy levels he brings and how you vibe together.
Seems like this guy wouldn't be much of a wingman...I would bring this mate out if i was looking to try to improve his social skills, have more of a mentor night.
This kind of sounds like me so i can't really say much haha. Sounds like a good dude to hang with if he meets lots of girls. If you hang with him in a place where he knows lots of girls that's social proof right there. You can just work off that.
TBH This is my kinda of friend, someone who is a asshole and just doesn't give a fuck most nights. Just as long as he knows when to calm down / back off. This person would be good for most nights because his energy is always there and he doesn't fear rejection because he already has a girlfriend.

Anyway, that's my 2 cents. :)

raikku_ · 2013-04-05T17:48:08+00:00

wing should:

approach
be fun to be around with
not be negative

if your only option is going out with a super negative guy that doesn't approach at all you're better off going solo.

Qix213 · 2013-04-03T19:48:49+00:00

Hot lesbian (90% of the time, occasionally she'd crave a dick in a purely sexual way and we'd become FWB for the night). Absolutely amazing wing and I did her a favour by acting as boyfriend when guys hit on her. Also she'd eat steak and drink beer/whisky.

God I miss that girl...

Picking the right wings

Comments

1, #2, and #5 all have their pros and cons, I'ld even go so far as to say that you should go out with all of them, and learn what their strengths are. The best way to learn is to learn from people who are better than you.

Title	Picking the right wings
Author	scubaseduction
Upvotes	6
Comments	13
Date	April 3, 2013 5:30 PM UTC (13 years ago)
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