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Platonic first for approach anxiety

Professional-Drink-6 · 2020-08-24T08:42:22+00:00

I have approach anxiety. Is it a good idea to set the bar a bit lower and have the goal of having platonic conversation with hot girls first? Once I master...

Professional-Drink-6

August 24, 2020

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Title	Platonic first for approach anxiety
Author	Professional-Drink-6
Upvotes	3
Comments	15
Date	August 24, 2020 8:42 AM UTC (5 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
Original Link	https://old.reddit.com/r/seduction/comments/iflb5r/platonic_first_for_approach_anxiety/
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[–]putcoolusernamehere 0 points1 point2 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

[–]backagainretard91 0 points1 point2 points 5 years ago (7 children) | Copy Link

[–]Professional-Drink-6[S] -1 points0 points1 point 5 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

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[–]JetPillar -1 points0 points1 point 5 years ago (4 children) | Copy Link

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[–]JetPillar -1 points0 points1 point 5 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link

Lmao if you really believe that I can’t help you. I’m assuming you’re using “you” to mean all women and not just specifically me which is both ridiculous but to claim that you know I’m using men for free meals when I’m perfectly capable of and do buy my own food is beyond silly.

I don’t know why that’s the first thing guys like you come up with. Like what do you think is so intriguing about a free meal? Food isn’t that expense that I’d waste time tricking a guy into thinking I liked him just so he’d buy me dinner.

And for another just because someone approaches you doesn’t mean they have to marry you. Welcome to the real world.

I never said any of this. My problem with your “advice” is you’re intentionally wasting peoples time and leading them on so you can practice your little “game” I never said men shouldn’t talk to women unless they plan on marrying them. You’re forcing strangers into dealing with your twisted outlook by having no intention of following through. You call that turning the tables. I call that being a hypocrite even if your mindset had a shred of truth in it. Guys like you who approach women just to screw with them make women 100 times more wary the next time someone does it. In the real world, people treat each other with respect.

[–]backagainretard91 -1 points0 points1 point 5 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

Lmfao you’re actually a dunce if you think women don’t take advantage of men. https://images.app.goo.gl/XYshb8zFi8wkkd5z5 and there’s many more like them. I used you for women... “all” most likely no but a large majority yes. You don’t prepare for the 1% of women that won’t but the 99% that will and that fact remains true wether you’re dealing with 99% or 75%. See that counter you just made? Makes no difference, it’s not about you having the money or not it’s you thinking you’re entitled to his.

Go ahead and tell me how many dates you paid your half of vs the ones where you made the guy (no I’m not talking about you putting a gun to his head and telling him to pay I mean pretending to offer knowing that you have no intention of paying)........ Going on a date with a man when you could give a fuck less who he is because you know you can sucker a free meal out of him makes you a C _ NT. Just like you calling guys who only want to fuck and leave a asshole.

Guys like me? Lmfao how about the 3 dozens of women that celebrate the fact that they keep lapdog guys around to buy them gifts when they don’t want to spend their own money? How about the fact that women don’t even offer to pay when both of you are complete fucking strangers who deserve nothing from each other? I love the fact that I didn’t even elaborate on “approach ugly women” and you got your hairy fish all riled up.

A guy can easily play flirt like you women do, what is it you always say? “I can’t help it if I’m play flirting and you catch feelings”? Same applies for men (which y’all hate) so a man can easily approach ugly women to build up experience and social skills till he gets to the point where he can do it with the hotter women and guess what? That doesn’t make him a bad person.

It’s about ordering a 35$ filet because it’s his money you’re wasting and not yours, same instance that you make your bfs pay for your 200$ nails and 100$ haircut.... #justwomanthings

[–]JetPillar -1 points0 points1 point 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

http://www.spsp.org/news-center/press-releases/collisson-foodie-calls

Here is the actual study rather than a random screen shot. According to the study around 23-33% of the study participants said they went out with a guy they didn’t like for a free meal. The study also says:

It is important to note, however, that neither of these studies recruited representative samples of women, so we cannot know if these percentages are accurate for women in general.

So, this study isn’t the end all be all of making sweeping generalizations about all women. Is going out with someone just for food a shitting thing to do? Yes.

See that counter you just made? Makes no difference, it’s not about you having the money or not it’s you thinking you’re entitled to his.

I have no idea what you think this proves. I have money. I am not entitled to anyone else’s money. If a guy I’m dating wants to buy me dinner or take me to a movie we either split the bill or I pay the following date. No idea what you think is going on in my dating life.

Go ahead and tell me how many dates you paid your half of vs the ones where you made the guy (no I’m not talking about you putting a gun to his head and telling him to pay I mean pretending to offer knowing that you have no intention of paying)........ Going on a date with a man when you could give a fuck less who he is because you know you can sucker a free meal out of him makes you a C _ NT. Just like you calling guys who only want to fuck and leave a asshole.

Calm down buddy. Calling people names doesn’t make your argument any less credible. When I go on dates I will ALWAYS, sincerely, offer to pay for half of whatever it was we did or pay for my own meal. Because of people like you I often refuse to let the guy pay the first date and tell him before hand that I prefer that we each pay for what we have. I have NEVER and WILL NEVER go on a date with a man i don’t see any future with. That’s just a waste of both out time.

Guys like me?

yeah, guys like you who see the entire female gender as an enemy.

Lmfao how about the 3 dozens of women that celebrate the fact that they keep lapdog guys around to buy them gifts when they don’t want to spend their own money?

Where are these women? Are these more random numbers you pulled out of your ass?

How about the fact that women don’t even offer to pay when both of you are complete fucking strangers who deserve nothing from each other?

Like I said before, I know plenty of women who do offer to pay. I always offer to pay. It’s a dinner not the freaking Hope diamond.

I love the fact that I didn’t even elaborate on “approach ugly women” and you got your hairy fish all riled up.

What does this even mean? You said practice your approach on ugly women. I said that’s a shitty thing to do. That’s like matching with people online and screwing around with them and then ghosting them. They’re both trashy things to do. My fish are perfectly fine tho thanks for worrying. They haven’t grown hair yet but their names are Nemo and Bubble :)

A guy can easily play flirt like you women do, what is it you always say? “I can’t help it if I’m play flirting and you catch feelings”?

You’re so butthurt. You admitted you’re screwing with these women because you wanna practice your “game” just because you catch feels when a woman is being nice to you doesn’t mean she was screwing with you.

Same applies for men (which y’all hate) so a man can easily approach ugly women to build up experience and social skills till he gets to the point where he can do it with the hotter women and guess what? That doesn’t make him a bad person.

I never once said I hated men. That’s you projecting your hatred of women. Screwing with people like you described does make you a bad person.

It’s about ordering a 35$ filet because it’s his money you’re wasting and not yours, same instance that you make your bfs pay for your 200$ nails and 100$ haircut.... #justwomanthings

Again, you have no numbers to back these claims up. Sure there are boyfriends who pay for their girls hair and nails. If they want to they can. If they’re already together, it has nothing to do with your idea of women using men they don’t care about for food. You seem to be incredibly angry about a $35 meal and are lashing out at women..... #justmenthings

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[–]Vinniikii 0 points1 point2 points 5 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

Many people understand backwards. They seek sexual power to replace emptiness and lack of social power. Porn sells them a resemblance. It becomes an addiction.

How do you acquire social power? Like clear skin, a million tools, no clear path.

One crucial perspective is that all people are beautiful. This enables you to find confidence-building interactions. Perhaps with luck you will become enlightened and see how hotness itself is rarely fixed or even definable. For women, it tends to follow certain physical characteristics; too often this unearned success spoils the women it blesses. Talking to these entitled, attention-drunk women is like taking moral advice from a decadent priest. If you have what they want, you can talk about that.

Often, the trauma of being unwanted and unpopular makes you over-reactive. In the end you must love yourself fully to love others even partly.

[–]Professional-Drink-6[S] -1 points0 points1 point 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link