Hey seddit, first off I want to say, y'all are great. Thank you for teaching me how (not) to text and how to be alpha without being an asshole among many other things.

I got a relatively easy question for you. I'm abroad right now (I'll turn back into a man soon...) and been sending postcards to friends back in the states. The other day I got a text message out of the blue from a lady, we'll call her Amy, that I hadn't heard from in several months. I used to have a severe case of one-itis for this girl. This was before I even knew what one-itis was. Naturally the only thing that happened was a little kissing and Amy being "not ready for this." Since then my game has improved greatly but I am still very much a n00b.

There's another lady, Kim, that is fantastic. It was one of those situations where I think she was gaming me. We are very compatible in bed and I like her a lot. I am working hard not to develop the one-itis again, but it is possible she could be LTR material....if she proves herself >:) She drove me to the airport and asked me if she could pick me up when I get back. My flight gets in at 745am so this chick is not joking around. Anyway......

I want to send them, along with all my other friends, some postcards. What kind of stuff would seddit write in the postcard to Amy and the one to Kim? I am not looking for specifics obviously but any help framing the writing would be awesome. Honestly I am not sure I want to go for Amy anymore just because of how much of an AFC I was around her, and I am afraid of going back down that path, but I want to live without fear!

Thanks in advance.