I have recently read the models by mark manson, though illuminating it says very little about what youre supposed to do in field. later i read the game by neil strauss, which i think runs contrary to former book. all the guys there are getting massive lays, like tons more than i could do being honest and shit. but they are very needy dudes who use techniques and shit to hide it, very successfully. its like textbook to them, they use same shit over and over and it works.

i was wondering which side is correct. could any experienced dudes explain what they know about this situation?