Push pull advise

epimpstyle · 2024-12-08T23:18:15+00:00

You know that women enjoy compliments, but too many from strangers make them uncomfortable and you use push-pull to balance things out. With push-pull you also create a new topic for talking and if the girl likes you at some level you will make her qualify for you. And yes, you can make the conversation more dynamic and playful, it's not manipulation as many guys misunderstand this concept (actually they don't understand and they don't want to learn new things).

Even if it is "push-pull", most practical examples are in fact "pull-push" like these: "you're fucking cute but something intrigues me...... are you old enough to buy a drink? ...../ are you as cool and interesting as you seem at the first glance.?

See the pull "Hey you are fucking cute but.......". (now is the push) you look too young...... / you're too tall/short..... / you laugh(talk) too loud...../ you look like trouble.....

Use it only after she is "hooked," otherwise it makes no sense. If the girl likes you at some level you will make her "qualify" which is a good sign but if the girl is not "hooked" she will be indifferent to your statement, she will be cold or even say: "ok, whatever" or "nevermind" while a "hooked" one will start asking you questions, pretend she is mad or playfully hit on your shoulder.

KoleSekor · 2024-12-09T02:13:55+00:00

Just be able to disagree with her.

A lot of guys agree and compliment everything she does/looks like/says (pushes) ... But the disagreement is the pull and it excites them.

Dandys3107 · 2024-12-09T13:26:27+00:00

Push-pull method works by triggering proper switches in a woman, by introducing variety of emotions and playing with tension and context. For example you can lead the interaction by having nice and pleasant vibe, getting to know each other, staying close, being clear and agreeable, and you can suddenly change the tone, take a step back, focus more on yourself or others, downplay girl's words, become indifferent to pursue anything. Then out of the blue you can return to initial game. For a man it can surely feel ridiculous to perform such a dance, but women are more of emotional beings. By implementing a drop of mystery, challenge, non-availability, assertiveness, unpredictability, rigid rules or frame, you actually provide much more excitement and value to your interaction, not only presenting yourself as a reliable man that can go in whatever direction he wants, but also causing much stronger hormonal response than guys that are acting just like law-abiding strangers. Think straight, if you can make woman feel much more things than other guys, she will choose you. It's not about confusing the girl or being rude at all, it's just to have as much fun as possible, even bending some standard interaction rules, and women are aware of it very well in contrast to logical thinking men.

chill_geek_boy · 2024-12-08T22:11:54+00:00

Push pull is actually a natural result of acting honestly. If the girl does not give you enough respect and doesn't show enough eagerness (this has to be real disinterest, not shyness or other innocent stuff), you do the same. If it is just her being shy and all, please do not try push and pull. In my honest opinion that type of game is manipulative and childish. If she is interested and you are interested just talk. If she is disinterested, respect it and move on. In some cases this makes them want to interact again and in which case you respond. This is push, pull but you should do this honestly not artificially. Do not make a girl who loves you wait.

Title	Push pull advise
Author	Few-Inspector-8522
Upvotes	5
Comments	13
Date	December 8, 2024 9:30 PM UTC (1 year ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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