Push/pull method went horribly wrong

drex_pp · 2019-11-29T23:10:32+00:00

You could have said something like 'Since you're so motivated, how you going to balance having me in your life?' But it is what it is

galicula · 2019-11-29T23:12:11+00:00

Her cringe face says it all

GGuy999 · 2019-11-29T23:19:50+00:00

Thats why on text its way harder to convey what you are about. And seriously fuck the dating apps man

TheHalfMonty · 2019-11-29T23:28:14+00:00

The push-pull wasn't where it went wrong here. It was your response when she asked you what you meant. You told her that being passionate was unhealthy. What she would glean from that is that you're not passionate and unmotivated.

When she asked you what you meant you could have made it sound like you too were highly motivated and competitive and it would clash.

FairAnalyst · 2019-11-29T23:57:34+00:00

I don't see how this backfired? A backfire would be if the shit went down the drain and you lost the girl over it.

It actually looked like she got more invested because it looked like you tried to disqualify her and she qualified herself instead.

Its like you tried to go for a 2 pointer shot and instead sunk a 3pt shot. But then you lost all momentum in the last 2 text lmao.

Atriev · 2019-11-30T02:04:24+00:00

You stayed in text too long. Phone call or just flirt on the date.

quinnmcd · 2019-11-30T04:27:34+00:00

this post had to be taken down because it appears to be focused on a specific situation or person.

Any posts about a specific situational advice with a specific person should be directed to /r/askSeddit. (Note that is askSEDDIT, not askREDDIT.)

lacey_marie · 2019-11-29T23:08:49+00:00

Title	Push/pull method went horribly wrong
Author	desperateseagull
Upvotes	0
Comments	19
Date	November 29, 2019 11:03 PM UTC (6 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
Original Link	https://old.reddit.com/r/seduction/comments/e3modv/pushpull_method_went_horribly_wrong/
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