Question about Compliance Tests

smoothmax · 2019-10-22T04:09:51+00:00

Potential banter comebacks:

Say please.

I gave up doing favors for hot women for Lent.

My therapist said I have to assert myself more. So, no. She's actually really hot ...

Ok. Just put it over there and I'll try to get to it later.

Sorry, what did you say? I was checking out your shoes. You know why shoes are important? ... Because good taste in shoes implies good taste in underwear.

Is that why your last intern quit?

That's good, but try it like Uma Thurman: (sultry) "Can you bring this to HR?" (twirl your hair with one finger and lean on the desk languidly)

Yeah sure. Have your people talk to my people. Later!

PiperBigBell · 2019-10-22T02:42:19+00:00

Compliance tests are for attraction yes. But more importantly they are there to set up a dynamic of man to woman. A man leads with his program and vision. The woman serves and acts as his help mate. Seduction is merely a foreshadowing of the natural dynamic.

When you get her to do stuff for you it triggers her to see you in the way of that ancient "alpha" dude she serves. When you do serve her petty requests it triggers the opposite. "Hold my purse. Take a picture of me (NEVER DO THIS). Grab this while I run to do xyz. Let me see your phone"

To answer your question. You only need to pass these tests in so far as it actually leading to something. A date. Sex. Dating. Fwb. Something where you both can see each other in that full light. Kinda like once two people have sex they chill out and get real free and normal with each other.

Or, you do it as a reminder of your position as a man. Otherwise you don't need say no to everything. She needs to see can you say no? Is he a puppet? Can I just use him? Am I the man or him? And you need to be asking, does she view me in the proper light.

Does she respect me? If she needs something genuine from you. You can say yes. But it has to have a meaningful yes. A yes at a cost. Your yes is valuable given your position. Hope that answers.

Daytripsinsidecars · 2019-10-22T02:23:37+00:00

I’m not sure I’m your intended commenter as I know nothing about “compliance tests”.

But if a woman is trying to use your attraction to her to get you to do stuff (as some women do) I can see that refusing to do that shit would make her realize you’re not the kind of low quality man to be manipulated.

The line, therefore, is when she actually needs your help.

As long as she’s just using you because she CBA then say no.

If she really needs your help though I’d say yes.

Edit: although frankly I would look for a different woman who’s not trying to use men in this manner.

ntipz011 · 2019-10-22T07:18:21+00:00

I guess that you saying No is withholding your validation, thus making her chase. If she likes you she'll chase, if she doesn't like you she'll be pissed.

I'm not too sure about where to go with that. If you appear as a jerk by saying no for ridiculous things she might see its incongruent.

I think it comes down to what is congruent with your personality. I'm no one's bitch but I'm also a nice guy so I don't pay for girl's drinks but I can buy them a bottle of water if I'm getting one for myself aswell. Like, I'm caring for my babes, but I'm not the AFC provider yes man.

Title	Question about Compliance Tests
Author	rudypoopenheimer
Upvotes	1
Comments	6
Date	October 22, 2019 2:18 AM UTC (6 years ago)
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