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Question about pickup/numbers game

vamsig66 · 2020-04-26T21:26:33+00:00

So I'm planning on starting to apply the pick up that I've learned from YouTube once this lockdown ends. I plan on approaching at least 10-20 girls a...

vamsig66

April 26, 2020

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Title	Question about pickup/numbers game
Author	vamsig66
Upvotes	3
Comments	11
Date	April 26, 2020 9:26 PM UTC (6 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
Original Link	https://old.reddit.com/r/seduction/comments/g8muey/question_about_pickupnumbers_game/
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[–]Brandonva804 2 points3 points4 points 6 years ago* (10 children) | Copy Link

Sup man so here’s the game. There is day/game night/game at your disposal. The key to success is simple. Get rejected as much as possible.

It’s good you want to approach 10-20 women a week. But guess what? Expect to get rejected by all of them. Yup, every single one. Even if you’re good looking. In fact, you may get rejected maybe 60 times before finding two girls who will actually go out with you. And after the date they’ll likely ghost you as well.

So keep dates cheap. No more than $10 a date. Go to star bucks, Cafes, etc disguised as nice but are cheap and affordable. Never take your dates out and spend anymore than $10. If she declines a nice place you decide on that’s cheap drop her. She’s likely looking for a free expensive meal.

I advocate you approach at least 100 girls a month looking to get rejected. This will improve your game and also make you aware of your short comings. Come up with your own way of gaming. Not someone else’s.

I started out years ago in my early 20’s day gaming. Because of my inability of having no swag and not being able to dance limited me at clubs. So I found my true nature in day game.

Where you could approach girls and simply win them over with my personality only and mouth. I started out approaching and getting rejected by countless women. But what I noticed was I was terrible at escalating and being funny.

So I learned and improved and eventually started getting good at talking. Here is my stats from the years I’ve observed day gaming.

Speaking 10+ Swag 5 Escalating 10+ Flirting 10+ Clubbing 0 Bars 0 Dancing 0

If you can get your speaking and escalation to 10+ you can fuck 2-3 out of the 60 girls you approach and that’s not even counting when you have really good weeks where you’ll bang 8+ girls.

Currently it’s scary how easy it is once you master your own way of gaming, but it’s worth it. Personally I use it to fuck like a rabbit when I’m single. I’m currently in a relationship and good for now. I’m easily a 6-7 and very skinny. Been with 7-10’s when it comes to women.

I’ve been in 10+ relationships and my body count is up to at least 75+ to 100+.

I was a virgin until I was 21. So if gaming helped a nerd like me get laid you can definitely nail it. Remember if you master speaking and escalation you will be banging chicks left and right. And I promise you the power will scare you.

Just make sure to protect yourself and rap it up until you find a girl you know is clean.

[–]vamsig66 2 points3 points4 points 6 years ago (6 children) | Copy Link

I appreciate the knowledge bro, but I already know most of this stuff and was asking how to juggle the dates and approaches at the same time. Also, I understand you’ll have your good and bad days, but most progressional pick up artists say that you can expect to get phone numbers out of roughly 10-20 percent of approaches. So if you talk to 100 women, you should be able to get 10 dates and sleep with 3-4 girls, roughly average. We’re you a super hard case newbie to begin with? I’m also a 21 year old virgin but I don’t have social anxiety and I have decent social skills. I’m okay with having bad days and nights and know there will be nights where I get rejected thirty times in a row, but I heard that’s usually the average for talking to 100 girls. So if I talk to 50 women a month over two months, that’s pretty good.

[–]Brandonva804 1 point2 points3 points 6 years ago (5 children) | Copy Link

This is how I juggle multiple women. I get burner so all numbers are routed to a different number. I bring them to my apartment each week and just have sex on different days. If you’re in a relationship I would not bring them to your apartment or place. Go to theirs.

I targeted a lot of college chicks because they’re super hard to lay and I love the challenge.

As far as me being a newbie? I said in my post above it took me years to get to the game I’m at now. Years! Sure I could get a girlfriend and get laid. But what I’m doing at 29 years old is far above my game years ago in my early 20’s. It literally takes me less than a month to find a new girl to have sex with now. Less than a month. Think about that?

Where in my twenties after a break up it would take me 5-9 months before I found anyone. Developing my own game took years of trail and error. Sadly this was in my case.

I truly advocate you don’t listen to PUA artists. I listened to them in my early years and while some of their advice helped. The true way to become good at game is simple. Rejection, study your faults, and get a better wardrobe. It’s that simple.

PUA will make you think you can change a girls mind about you. You can and I’ve done it before, but I would say just don’t believe everything they say.

These girls out here in a league of their own. You gotta bring your own mindset not someone else’s.

[–]vamsig66 1 point2 points3 points 6 years ago (4 children) | Copy Link

Totally agree bro. You need to find your own way to do things. Most dating coaches feed you false information and there are only a small handful that are very good like Tripp Advice, Mr. Locario, and AMS. At your level, I would imagine you could easily find a girl in a week of approaching to sleep with you. I know that there are no pick up lines to change a girls mind, and that’s it not what you say but how you say it. So once I start getting dates and having sex, my confidence will skyrocket and girls will be able to pick up on that and it will become less of a numbers game.5-9 months to find someone sounds redicilous unless you have very bad game. I hear the conservative number for the ratio for girls who will sleep with you based off of the GOOD dating coaches and experienced guys is 1:50. And that is just a conservative number. You could very well sleep with more. So if it takes 5-9 months of 100”s of approaches to get laid with just one girl it sounds like game isn’t worth it at all. Game takes work I agree and the challenge makes it more fun but like any skill, too much of a challenge is not worth it. So I will see what happens with me.

[–]Brandonva804 1 point2 points3 points 6 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link

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[–]silverbird666 0 points1 point2 points 6 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link

The problem is that your strategy will never work if you dont live in a big city. I for example live in a small town with some surrounding villages.

Even if there is currently no pandemic going on, and I am going to our local club every weekend, I highly doubt that I will even see a hundred different good-looking girls who are roughly in my age-group. So, any strategy with a sucess-rate of one out of twenty or thirty is just ridicolous for me. If I want to have regular sucess, I need to reach a rate of around every fourth or fifth girl I am approaching being very interested in me. I can pull this off in a club or in a party. I could never come even close to this in daygame. So, if there would be some way to achieve regular sucess with daygaming in a small town, I would be glad to hear about it, but if you are not literally the Mike Tyson of daygaming, I just dont see it.

I guess I will have to wait until nightgaming is possible again. It will take some months, but in the grand scheme of things it is not really that much. I am just 19, so I have plenty of years left in me, I guess.

[–]Brandonva804 1 point2 points3 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Well you have a point. I do live in a big city. I guess if you live in a small town that would blow. I would move if that’s the case. The more girls you approach the better. I’m not gonna try and waste my time focusing on one girl when I can have multiple women to pursue. Because I’ve seen time and time again focusing on one or two women is a big mistake.

I hope you find luck in your small town. Also I’m no Mike Tyson of day gaming. I think what I typed is not even remotely as good as other reddit posts on this forum. I give you the simple basics to meet women. Get rejected, repeat, escalate, and continue to approach. This is what I’ve done and it’s not like I’m saying I meet girls and seduce everyone of them. Or I’m the best.

I put in years to get where I’m. Years. So when I tell you that living in a big city and approaching multiple women back to back works. I think my experience over the years would be helpful to most people.

[–]relentless_pma 1 point2 points3 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link