I know right away that this post is going to get a lot of downvotes, but that is okay. You guys can downvote this all the fuck you want but it will not stop me from posting it. All your life you’ve been told to not let success and external validation go to your head, but I am here to tell you the opposite. When you have success in pickup like a girl being interested in you, or receiving compliments on your looks or something else that strokes your ego, let it get to your head! When you’re talking to and approaching women, they are primarily going to be attracted to your confidence. The success and validation you get will give you the ego you need to come off as confident. A lot of people and dating coaches tell you to not do this and that the confidence should only come from within, but I say fuck that, it is very difficult to be confident just because, and almost always comes from external validation and success. So let the success and compliments get to your head, but just don’t brag about it cause that will turn women off.