Question on Flirting

natephant · 2017-04-28T16:00:31+00:00

Flirting is the art of allowing a woman to know you want to put your penis inside her without ever actually saying that, and having her suggest that would be ok without ever actually saying it.

misery-greenday · 2017-04-28T18:11:19+00:00

I think you'd be better off with a video than an explanation - there are a lot of different flirting styles and it's easier to recognize it when you see it than analyze what it means.

That said, I think playfulness is kind of key, and then sort of playing with the line where offensive and funny meet.

t1mman · 2017-04-28T16:03:39+00:00

Good question and thank you for making me think about it. Many flirts, men and woman, but what is flirting? I think it could be summed with this: Flirting is using subtext to show sexual intent. By using non-verbal message, using double sense, innuendos, you rise the excitement because it is never obvious that you (or she) is into you. It creates and built tension by making it somewhat risky to go too far.

How you do it? Well, that goes in par with the definition, doesn’t it? In order to “build” the tension, you start small. For example, just standing in her “personal space” could be enough to start building the tension. Lingering there just enough will raise the tension. Just enough so that she is wondering why you are standing that close, if you’ll touch her, she’ll mostly be pulled toward you and might “accidentally” touch you. It’s kind of this dance you do between the two of you. You drop hints here and there to tell her you are into her, without being too obvious.

Hope you have enough to think about and to try!

Jack__Knife · 2017-04-28T16:15:34+00:00

Flirting is playful banter with members of the opposite sex. This usually includes a conscious desire to flatter the one being flirted with. Flirting is a core aspect of many relationships today between a boy and a girl. Nearly all accounts of flirting include subtle sexual innuendos.

Example - “OMG, your dimples are so adorable.”

Example - “Don’t make me spank you girl!”

Example - “Oh you like Housewives of Atlanta? We’re officially best friends now.”

Example - "Happy Steak & Blowjob day! I like my steak medium-rare and blow-job well done."

girlsmagnet · 2017-04-28T18:00:23+00:00

For your last question i say you have to avoid the friendly type of conversations.

Woujo · 2017-04-29T01:37:46+00:00

Part of entering the pick-up world is putting regular people concepts aside. I have been doing pick-up for a long time and I still don't know what the word "flirt" means. I think it's a useless concepts.

Focus on having a deep conversation, emotionally connecting, and then showing your intention to fuck her.

CibrecaNA · 2017-04-29T13:26:18+00:00

As others are saying, "Indirect sexual propositions."

Title	Question on Flirting
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Upvotes	11
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Date	April 28, 2017 1:45 PM UTC (9 years ago)
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