You know how sometimes you're talking to a girl, and you notice that you guys are connecting well, brushing up against each other a bit more than usual, maybe she's smiling into your eyes - you guys know that you probably kinda like each other, but no one's SURE.

A great, low-risk way to physically project your intentions is to use intentional touch - touch that they know is intentional, and that isn't more than a little incidental brush.

My favourite way to do that is to have a bit of sustained contact with my hand. Doing it with your leg is a pussy way, in my opinion, because it could be explained as 'oh I didn't mean to do that', and assertiveness is very attractive. Using your hand says 'fuck yeah I meant to do that'.

So if you guys are sitting down, put the back of your hand on her thigh or knee while you talk. If she doesn't move your hand or her thigh, oh you're so in. Then just escalate. Flip your hand over, move it upwards. Grab her waist, whatever.

I'm not so sure about the equivalent for when we're standing up - any tips on that, guys?