If I have fun with a girl, I'll generally have outcome independence, because who gives a shit if I hook up with her if she's also cool and smart and interesting and therefore fun to just hang out with. So I'll never have problems carrying on long conversations, setting up hangouts with those girls because I actually like them and find them interesting to talk to. So some will lead to hookups, some won't - I don't care, because I'm having fun either way. Basically, if I were asexual, I would still be good friends with these girls.

The problem comes with good-looking girls (that I want to get with on the basis of their looks) who simply aren't very interesting or fun to hang out with. Like, they won't banter, they're not particularly interesting - there's just nothing there. But often times, because of social proof, they will have a bit of an interest in me.

The only success I've had with girls that I don't have fun hanging out with is being really direct - just going for kisses without much comfort building or interactions, often at/after parties. Or, I'll just text them 'hey wanna hook up'. I'm 2/2 on those.

Umm...basically I have to ask, what would you do in my situation? There are girls that I just want to hook up with (not be in a relationship with) because they're good looking but without being in a party, I find it difficult to get hookups if I don't find it interesting (because I can't kino heavily, can't really go super direct).

So...thoughts?

NB. One possible thing I've thought that I might be doing wrong is that these girls might actually be quite interesting...I just like them for their looks so I dont' really take the time to find out if they're cool or not because maybe I'm putting them on a pedestal?

tl;dr how do I hook up with good looking girls that I don't really have fun hanging out with