Reading this sub sometimes make things seem overcomplicated while dating.

ModernManLevi · 2021-02-28T16:37:57+00:00

The thing I like the least is the extreme focus on numbers and the player ideal that lots of pickup businesses promote. Most people don't need 200+ girls on their list and just want to learn enough to be able to attract the women they find cute.

Besides that, making things overly complicated by hammering on outer game has a way of making people feel they need to be perfect and thus builds flirting up to an immensely stressful ordeal while it actually should be about fun and exploring wonderful new connections. That's why I love inner game more, because deep down a lot of us already know how to flirt, but they just don't know how to get into the right state of mind.

-Levi

Left-Coat-4028 · 2021-02-28T14:33:04+00:00

I think you hit the nail on the head. With 99 percent of things in life, you can’t “think” your way into fixing a problem or getting better at something. It’s really just confidence and being in the moment, the less your identification with your mind the better

CenaSmackDown · 2021-03-01T03:31:36+00:00

Most of these posts are guys that don't understand pick-up but need help, or could easily find the answer in a book but would rather be breast-fed the answer. I'd rather read success stories. Feels like women are just stomping all over men left and right

MakeSail · 2021-03-01T08:30:21+00:00

How would you classify a pro at seduction?

Title	Reading this sub sometimes make things seem overcomplicated while dating.
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Date	February 28, 2021 2:09 PM UTC (5 years ago)
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