It seems like in the dating community, and mainstream society all Tinder conversations are great role playing, and acting masterpieces. And the dreaded "hey hows it going?" or "hi" is too boring.. If a man is to be successful on Tinder he must participate in the entertainment arms race??

But as a guy who has started getting matches successfully I want to ask more experience guys is this correct? Do men have to do verbal gymnastics to get a phone number? It seems like if we open with the best story or question of all time the odds arent that much greater if at all (woman may or may not respond)..

As I review my past Tinder conversations (usually ending with the girl ghosting, or me realizing we have nothing in common and stopping), it seems like Im failing in comparison to the awesome Tinder openers highlighted by Huffington Post.😏