Recorded everything. Thoughts?

ninjamuffin · 2014-12-01T09:44:51+00:00

This is one of the few cold approach recordings that didnt make me cringe at the beginning! I really liked how you did the compliment, but didnt make her stop walking, it seemed less intrusive. However, i dont l know if circumstances werent in your favor but you asked for the number too quickly, gotta build more rapport first

NaturalNewbie · 2014-12-01T17:40:50+00:00

I'm sorry, but your text game is complete shit. You seem like you take things said here too seriously...what the hell is up with you not responding to her for five days and then getting FAR FAR FAR too mushy/emotional on a woman you haven't even taken out yet?

Saying you're available every weekend this month is basically saying I have no life and am waiting for you to decide you want to go out with me. This girl took it easy on you, but most would have just stopped responding or called you creepy.

Look...I'm not trying to beat you up, but you basically left her hanging after she told you she wanted to go out and offered a different time, you don't even bother to listen when she tells you Tuesday works....you try and set it up for next Monday. Then you assume you've "got her" so you just stop responding like some redpiller, she blows you off, then you stalked her Wattsapp and tried again? You came across as some wanna be player in the beginning by not even bothering to respond, then immediately turned into some needy clingy guy. You need to get your emotions in balance.

Fruitunderthebed · 2014-12-01T10:56:54+00:00

Did you write this?

ou're incredibly beautiful but you carry yourself so...aimlessly. I still want to know if you're as beautiful on the inside.

Your voice was so chilling and memorable. It's so different, so distinct...so alluring. You can understand why I find the obstacles between us painful. But I am prepared to bear much more than this little pain for what potential we may have. It felt right to take a chance and approach you and maybe it will take a series of risks to find something good In this....Or not, only one way to find out. In time you'll get to know me better too. I'll get better at reading you and and I'll be less frustrating to you too Holy fuck this turned into a rambling essay or a poem. I

michigansnow · 2014-12-01T15:50:41+00:00

Some reason I get anxiety listening and watching stuff like this. Good job mate.

SR3TLAW · 2014-12-01T16:06:23+00:00

What did you record this with?

SedditJM · 2014-12-01T18:12:42+00:00

Oh my god the WhatsApp essay...

Very, very needy. I'm impressed by her for handling it so smoothly.

BusinessBacon · 2014-12-07T13:28:06+00:00

Is the recording still available somewhere?

8sweettooth8 · 2014-12-01T10:54:12+00:00

This one also didn't make me cringe haha :) Overall, I think you did well but there's a few things you can still improve on.

First, your voice. It's nasaly. I would recommend working on speaking more from your chest and diaphragm than your nose. There is a lot of material out there that helps you work on your voice. I recommend Nancy Daniels, "Voicing It" (all materials, including DVD).
Try to be a little more confident. Don't worry too much if she's in a rush. No need to remind her of any reason why she should stop talking to you ;)
I wouldn't use the word "date" this soon. It sounds too "high committment". Think about it. If a girl you just met on the street for 2 minutes and 23 seconds asked you out on a date via text, wouldn't you be a little creeped out? You just met. Take it slow :) "I'm free tomorrow after 5 PM. Let's meet at (local cafe). Or do you prefer large retail brand coffee like Starbucks? I hear McDonalds and Burger King makes great jet fuel too."
I usually build a bit more rapport with her before asking for her number, unless I'm in a rush or one of us has to go.

Thanks for the FR :)

2014-12-01T15:34:01+00:00

Really great FR, love recordings! Some tips.

Nice direct open, nice introduction, she hooked fairly quickly, maybe two questions in, but you keep relating to her by telling her "That's cool!", relate better.
You don't come off extremely confident asking her if she's in a rush, just assume she isn't in a rush and push the interaction, she might even write off plans she had because she wants to spend time with you. Even "I was just wondering if I could ask for your number", that's bad.
Set the meet logistics in person. So then you can minimize your texting, and simplify your interaction. All this texting about not definitive logistics makes me squirm.
Or even see what she's got planned for the rest of the day, and move to an insta-date, or set the meet later in the day then push the interaction forward there, see what kind of adventure you guys can take off on. :)

Overall it's not a garbage interaction, but your neediness came through near the end, and some cracks in your confidence and audible. She was attracted to you and seemed open to move the interaction forward then and there. I would've just moved her to grab a drink after which we finished the shoe errand we were both theoretically on. Then give an hour or so on the drink, would've let her emotions/attraction spike enough to take her home and close things out.

It seems daunting when you're first starting out, but after so many of these girls who seem all smiles and laughs in person, and then get flighty, you start to persist harder when it matters, and not let opportunities fly away.

Title	Recorded everything. Thoughts?
Author	deathbeforedishonour
Upvotes	1
Comments	12
Date	December 1, 2014 9:01 AM UTC (11 years ago)
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