[Request] Side bar definitive guide on Solo Game.

pua_metro_gnome · 2012-01-29T04:29:13+00:00

Lone wolf here. Might be pretty obvious but can't be stressed enough: state state state! If your going solo you have to hit the ground running and be in a good mood. Start talking before you go out. Phone some people that you can rant to or talk to yourself. Get your voice warmed up so you can be heard later on. Put some music on and sing or dance a bit at your place- alcohol is always good but it's the easy way out. Get pumped! Eating a big meal some how makes a world of difference for me. Get some caffeine in you. A nice cup of tea or coffee will go both your voice and energy levels good.

Laugh. This honestly works great. Im watching aziz ansari (sp?) right now. Laugh like a stoned hyena. Don't just sit there smirking- Laugh out loud. If your laughing in your head now your more likely to stay in your head at the bar. Not. Good.

Taking a cab? Bullshit with the taxi driver. Walking? Make eye contact/comments with/at passerbys. I prefer to walk.

Once at the venue: talk to the first person you can ASAP: the bouncer? "What's going on," "busy/slow night tonight". Then when you step through the door- get started. If anyone makes eye contact with you just start talking.

On nights your really in state forget IOI's talk to the first girl you see for the sake of amusing yourself. Doesn't have to be the best girl in the bar. Doesn't have to be a girl. Imagine yourself as a satellite/spaceship with limited fuel and each set/person is a planet. If you wanna get through to everyone you gotta build momentum. Orbit around a set for a bit(talk to don't walk around them in circles) and when your feeling good- bounce! Burn out? Laugh it off and keep on flying.

Hope this helps!

xxxmoneypower · 2012-01-29T02:26:31+00:00

While I always try to take the homeys under a wing to show them the ways of not being a total fucking slouch at getting tail, I more often than not end up sarging quite a bit on my own. I've earned my lone wolf stripes in New York, and most recently in Montreal—so my results might be a little inflated, but shit is definitely an art. If this thread gets rolling I'll swoop back through, I'm interested to see what everyone has to say.

If I had to throw together some quick tidbits though, I'd say the number one thing you can do to kick start your lone wolf status is pick up a billiards, plenty of bars have pool tables, and it's a totally natural way to interact with shit tons of people over the course of a night. If you can sharpen up, then you'll have no problem blowing open sets with "Hey would you mind being my partner? All these guys are awful" which smoothly transitions to "You're just like the Bonnie to my Clyde, we're total hustlers." Most girls jump at the opportunity to learn something, and if you're already reaping the social proof of running a table like you own it, most girls will be crawling to get in line for validation. Be wary, many fights will follow snagging girls from the guys that they came with, seriously. I don't know how many times I've ended up rolling dudes that get emotional about you showing their girl how to hold the stick.

TheGameGenie · 2012-01-29T08:45:28+00:00

I also want to be able to be completely self-reliant in my social life.

You realize how insane that sounds by itself, right?

Just sayin'.

PLplotsOTS · 2012-01-29T02:20:06+00:00

Couldn't help but think of the hangover.

I'm not quite sure what you're asking for. Every member in a group still needs to adhere to the same principles of game. Solo game is the norm; wing game is a variation that has some extra considerations. Almost all of the content on Seddit deals with solo game.

revbobdobbs · 2012-01-30T09:28:08+00:00

Lone wolf, calling in.

I solo daygame about half the time. I do have a couple of cool wings, but I'll only go out with a wing if he is a cool guy who's company I genuinely enjoy.

Wing can make things easier, because hanging out with a wing for daygame gets my social brain engaged. I'm in a relatively small city, and I can spend half an hour or so between sets. Having a cool guy to hang with in that time keeps my social brain nimble.

But, fuck it. When I have no wing, I go on my own. During the daytime at least, you don't need a wing.

I think that nightime should be the same really, but I don't do nightgame so much.

lim1290 · 2012-01-29T06:29:53+00:00

Econ classes by Plassman tend to be interesting and he explains theory well. Not math classes, too.

Entrepreneurship 460 is about writing a business plan, but it's open to anyone with that ambition who asks the professor nicely. He brings in successful and inspirational people to give talks. Not that much work.

throwawaysed369 · 2012-01-29T14:33:25+00:00

My tips:

Talking to pretty girls you want to fuck gets you in state.

Walking or doing a round of the bar/club defeats AA. So once you have a couple of beers down get up and start walking. The place needs to have a good crowd though.

Title	[Request] Side bar definitive guide on Solo Game.
Author	reallyguysreallyy
Upvotes	41
Comments	24
Date	January 29, 2012 12:49 AM UTC (14 years ago)
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