PREP:

  1. Be physically and mentally healthy

  2. Be honest and comfortable with who you are.

  3. Treat yourself and the other person with respect and boundaries.

  4. Have an abundance mindset.

INTEL / CONNECTION

  1. Have a conversation with the other person

  2. Have genuine curiosity in the other person Be accepting for who they are.

  3. Be willing to open up about your flaws.

EXECUTION / FOREPLAY / ANTICIPATION:

  1. Give generously a preview of what they desire

  2. Tell them what you want playfully, respectfully

  3. Pull back intentions PLAYFULLY, respectfully

  4. Repeat.

I know this is advice is oversimplified, but I realized this framework when I hit rock bottom and lost all self esteem in my early twenties. Through trial and error and building on myself, I happily made a genuine connection, seduced my gf and have better relationships with other people using this framework.

Nothing gets the other person's loins throbbier, than with an arrow to their heart. I could show u, but I'm happily in a relationship. I know you want it, but I want you to try it. Have fun.