Going on a second date. First date was a dinner date then some pool, but I'm kind of not sure what to do for a second. I want to go to a comedy show,but is that over kill for a second?

How do you guys proceed to gauge where to go on dates, after the first? Is doing dinner again redundant and boring?

Also, I don't drink but she does, how you sober dudes getting along with doing dates sober?