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[–]Regular-Yesterday-58 3 years ago [recovered] (1 child) | Copy Link
Depends on if you kissed or hooked up.
Kissed = wait 2-3 days and hint at wanting to hang out in the future
Hooked up = text later that day that you enjoyed the night and propose a type date that you want, so she'll only have to say yes or no
If you haven't done any of the above, I honestly wouldn't bother because she is probably not into you. I'd let her make the move. And If that move never comes then so be it.
[–]Molteni- 0 points1 point2 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I did that, she has never contacted me and seemed to be even colder with me. The date went very well (she proposed me to have a stroll with her and her friend from another country to showing her the city during the date but then retired that in chat)
[–]Ambitious-Ice2357 3 points4 points5 points 3 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link
At the end of the first
[–]Molteni- 0 points1 point2 points 3 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
There are two possible scenarios (date went well) depending on the girl's personality: 1) She contacts me after the date 2) She waits for me to contact her (she's insecure/wants to feel desired/believes that the man should get in touch with the girl)
I suppose just waiting one day and then reaching her out is the best choice as in case number two occurs she will question your interest if you don't contact for too long.
[–]Ambitious-Ice2357 0 points1 point2 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I wouldn’t do it that way but that’s just me. If I had a great date and there was attraction and chemistry I would try to make plans with her at the end of the first date. Take the initiative and tell her you had a great time and then ask her if she wants to get together again and do something on —— (date/time)
[–]Neo-Rio 1 point2 points3 points 3 years ago* (0 children) | Copy Link
Never.
If sex isn't happening on the first date, for whatever reason (I would always try and push for it), then I leave her with my contact information.
If I did my job properly on the date - but just for some reason she was a bit iffy about coming over so quickly - she should call later and want to see me. I will then say that I'm staying home but I would be happy to see her. She then does the rest.AT NO TIME do I let her suggest places to meet up in public or any dates somewhere. It MUST be on my schedule. This is to ensure that she's not going to try and jerk me around either. If she tries it, I politely decline and say that I don't feel like going anywhere today, but would still like to see her at my place.
If she doesn't call, she was never going to sleep with me and I consider her not calling as a saving of both my time and emotional investment.
[–][deleted] 0 points1 point2 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
i asked as soon as i got home and she said yes
[–]foxyua_93 0 points1 point2 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Typically 2-3 days. But if she’s into you , she might write you earlier. And then you chat a bit and “when you’re free to get together for bla bla?” Done! Date is set! Don’t blow her phone or text a lot. Use as an instrument for setting dates (in the Beginning).
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