Seddit, I'm moving into college today. Tips/advice?

w3rm4 · 2014-08-17T13:33:28+00:00

Just remember one thing talk to everybody in the beginning because chances are nobody knows anyone and yes that includes the hot girls. Even just befriending a hot girl can help down the road cuz chances are she'll have hot friends too. Be the cool social guy who knows everybody.

pppoe123 · 2014-08-17T14:21:25+00:00

Hook up with girls in your dorm last.

ThrowawayPUA · 2014-08-17T14:26:28+00:00

Start building a social circle. Be the guy who organizes activities and is the center of the social circle. Get numbers from everyone. Then get active with everyone, like for example, invite everyone out to an evening event like coffee or drinks at some local venue. Then start connecting people with each other. You'll always be welcome in anyone's social circle if you're the guy who introduces people to each other. College freshmen are always desperate to find social opportunities, and it doesn't take much effort to be more sociable than the average guy.

Mo_Lester69 · 2014-08-17T18:39:05+00:00

you see, the freshman is a wild beast. it cannot be tamed. it cannot be taught. it can only learn and grow from experience, like the rest of us.

i can tell you 100x not to get pissed drunk in order to slay women but thats not what [most] freshman do. they are too hyped about college, don't know how to drink or handle their shit, and as a result are an uncontrollable mass of hormones.

however, i shall give you this advice.

drink slowly and carefully. its always fun pregaming and slamming shots to the face but it won't hit you until you are out the door heading out to the parties.
don't take advantage of drunk girls. you will be known as that guy and no one will want to be friends with you.
leave your door open, talk to everyone
its harder [for me] to try to find a group of solid bros who have your back than to find pretty girls. that being said, at first everyone will be your friend.
know yourself.

dbwhrsd · 2014-08-17T20:31:43+00:00

Get with as many girls as quickly as possible. Don't set your sights on one girl too early. Earn a reputation as a womanizer and soon enough girls will be throwing themselves at you. Also "I'm so drunk" is basically the female mating call.

P.S. Never get more drunk that someone you're trying to get with.

Mouthpiece · 2014-08-17T13:23:38+00:00

If you really need advice today, it's to have spent the last three months reading up and practicing. It's also hard to give you advice since we don't know where you stand.

You're about to enter one of the best environments in the world for meeting bedding women if you just do it right. (if only I had known about this stuff when I started college!). We're all a little bit jealous but excited for you.

bfhurricane · 2014-08-17T17:34:28+00:00

Kill it in class man. I wish I applied myself more as a freshman and sophomore. You'll be happier for it when you hit junior year and don't have the stress of needing to boost your GPA to land a job right out of school. By the time you're a senior, it'll be the smart ones that have their shit together and an actual future lined up that will have it easiest with girls.

verytguy · 2014-08-17T18:52:20+00:00

Depending on what college you goto its almost impossible to not make friends unless your like a terrorist or something.

patrocles316 · 2014-08-17T21:08:40+00:00

Figure out your "style" of seduction from some of the coaches/gurus online and absorb & apply as much of the free shit that you can.

My personal favorite are the Non-direct "basic guy game" from Craft of Charisma or Good Looking Loser. Free podcasts and directional videos on either of their websites/youtube.

coolaznkenny · 2014-08-17T15:34:30+00:00

There was a gaint back to school thread about this a couple of weeks look it up

Endoss · 2014-08-17T17:45:36+00:00

Go hard or go home.

Learn how to drink, but don't drink a lot very often.

The easiest way to get any house to love you is to talk about how good your GPA is and how much you love brotherhood while you're also super hammered.

Talk to every chick, because chances are, they're probably insecure about something stupid, meaning the hot girls are often into anyone who talks to them.

sjg22 · 2014-08-17T18:22:26+00:00

Try to become good friends with the girls in your dorm. It would be stupid to try to bang any of them because if things went sour you would have to see them all the time. By befriending them early on you gain access to more parties (i.e. opportunities to meet girls) by simply having girl friends. Also, you'll meet other girls that are friends of theirs (i.e. even more opportunities to meet girls).

throwawayodd33 · 2014-08-18T01:34:48+00:00

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NeutralGoodAndrew · 2014-08-18T09:33:53+00:00

Probably the first step is to figure it out what you really want to do or where you want to go. You didn't tell it to us.

Not_taken_Username · 2014-08-18T11:13:26+00:00

No particular order.

Enjoy yourself for one without failing out your first semester. Happens all the time.

Get involved! Seriously, not only a great way to meet and interact with people, but there are mostly likely girls to meet. I pledged a fraternity, which built up my social circle and confidence by a huge margin. I also joined the radio station as a DJ, cause why not. I also had various jobs where I met more people on campus, and working on a campus is fun cause you're mostly likely working with college kids as well.

Don't be the drunk idiot creeping on girls at the parties, you'll be easy to spot.

If you go to parties talk to everyone!

If you're in a dorm, keep your door open and and invite people in to chill. Also meet people on your floor/in your building.

Freshman whores. it's rude to say but it the truth. freshman girls get wild their first semester.

Enjoy yourself! College is what you make it, my five years were life changing because I made it.

Title	Seddit, I'm moving into college today. Tips/advice?
Author	throwawayodd33
Upvotes	14
Comments	24
Date	August 17, 2014 12:16 PM UTC (11 years ago)
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