You know that cute girl you always say high to on your way out the door? Did you just get put into a group with an HB10 from your class by your professor? This guide aims to help you seduce those girls that you see on a daily basis, but you haven't done anything with. Most of PUA is on chance encounters, I want to share with you a method I've used three times on those girls that you have to see every weekday. (2 of which I got an unprovoked "I love you", and on the third count I shook the foundations of a relationship of 4 years)
WARNING: This is intermediate level stuff, if you're still new to PUA, I do not suggest you try this as I will be going against some tenets of PUA. Also, this whole approach hinges that you have had little to no interaction with the target, essentially 0 rapport. If you do, you may still have it work, but be forewarned I have not tried this so results may vary.
I call this the "Mr. Darcy" as an allusion to the book Pride and Prejudice, it will become clear later on and if it isn't: READ THE BOOK YOU UNCULTURED SHITS!
Open the target, but start by engaging on their work and performance. In a class setting this is easy, in a work setting you have to be a little clever depending on your job. For example, I teach freshmen biology in college, and I run my own review group. I ask a colleague how she runs hers, and then would playfully critique and say things like "Oh, that's not an effective way of learning." "You told them that? Well that is slightly incorrect..." Essentially, you're negging them, and integral part is to have a big smile and laugh. Be critical, but being playful is essential. The purpose of this is to create a rivalry. You will force her to qualify not only herself but how competent she is at her job. You're playing on some heavy stuff here, especially as a male challenging a female in the workplace/classroom. Many girls will be insulted and fired up to challenge you right back. This is good.
Keep it going for the next few times to talk to her. Keep that rivalry alive. With most girls, within the first time meeting you, they either bin as "friend" or "potential boyfriend/FB". With this, you can't be binned, at least not quite yet. In fact after talking with girls who I've used it on they told me "I thought you were a complete asshole the first time I met you." This was said in my sheets BTW.
After you've established this rivalry for some time (I recommend the time span of a few weeks), it's time for the Turn. This is where you take her out, in a form of a peace gesture. This point is up to your personal style; usually I ask them out for a drink. I keep kino, while at the bar, and usually say something out of left field like "You know, I'm amazed at how smart you are. I give you a hard time, but you're a superior XXX than me." This will mindfuck the shit out of her. Keep escalation and close how you wish from there.
Why does this work? I have my own theory on it, but the most important thing is that you're ** eliciting emotions**. Getting her to feel anger/resentment towards you is infinitely better than her feeling nothing towards you. Once you're ready for the Turn, you play on this very passionate rapport you've created into a reconciliation maneuver. You've caught her so off guard that you've transmuted all her negative emotions into pure attraction.
Some caveats: calibration is key, if neg too much, you'll turn her off completely, if it's too little, you'll end up in the friendzone. Also, I never neg the girls appearance (or comment on it at all), make your attraction her completely obfuscated until the turn. Some of you may have cringed when I mentioned my line for "the Turn", as you should have, I came up with this before I became part of the PUA community; it's a very beta, AFC sentence. The point of that is to show vulnerability--just ever so slightly, and in a way that complements her. However, I'm sure there's someone that can convey the same thing in a less beta way.
So there it is. Not much in the PUA community about the long haul, because we usually emphasize abundance mentality. But should you just be determined to shit where you eat, take this method into consideration. Go forth and prosper all.
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