Seducing everyone 24/7... experience/advice?

frogma · 2011-06-07T17:00:34+00:00

You should always be on (unless you don't feel like it or you're in a bad mood or something). Generally if I'm talking to any female, I'm a bit of a "charmer" even if I don't want anything out of it. I still get familiar with them and build rapport, I still kino, and I tend to "build attraction/comfort" in some form. The only difference is I don't take it further.

With guys, I basically just build rapport and become friends with them. I don't kino them as much, usually. But I think that's a sort of limiting belief.

The only possible issues you'll have is if you come on too strong, someone might get a weird vibe from you- but if you're doing it right, they'll just think you're talkative/friendly/whatever. The other issue that I always deal with is I'll be forced into weird situations with girls- especially at parties/bars. If I'm really "on," I tend to lead them on, so I'll end up dancing with a girl or making out with her, when I don't want to at all. Sometimes it'll even lead to sex, just because I pass the point of no return and would feel bad just rejecting them. But that's a risk I'm willing to take.

But yeah, in general, I'm always semi-"gaming" everyone. I don't consciously think about it or anything, it's just the way I interact with people.

2011-06-07T19:28:12+00:00

here's what I've learned

before going out or pre-date. the entire day I talk to EVERYONE I run into. Pumping gas, grocery line, restaurant, whatever, wherever. ask questions, talk. guys, girls old grannies, whoever. I feel it's like working out your muscles, you need to warm up.

this has been a game changer for me. I'm usually a quiet person and my job is such that I'm in front of a computer most of the day not doing much talking, so that when I do strike up a conv, I tend to be sputtery and cold, like my brain is just searching for something interesting to say or ask. once you've been interacting all day you are more in "state", as they call it in PUAworld.

The other thing I've learned is. Don't. Give. A. Fuck. If you don't care about the outcome, and truly don't give a fuck, you're brain won't overthink and analyze like I had to train my brain to not do

RaptorButts · 2011-06-07T22:55:48+00:00

Try and focus on the positive. Instead of getting discouraged, think about what you did right in every situation. Consciously shift your focus, and your results (and motivation) will skyrocket.

JoePants · 2011-06-25T03:24:08+00:00

I'm in sales, it's how I make my money.

ALL the time, even from people I pray to God will never lay hand on me (still kino, a touch between the elbow and shoulder, quickly, is a fantastic rapport builder, as is the quick walking-away back pat). And I'm long-time married, and try to remain attractive sexually for my wife. (And I'm pro-porn.) ALL the time.

In sales at its most basic the steps are: Rapport, presentation, close. These are the same steps as a PUA. Finding out about this stuff, this PUA thing, has been great, and a money maker. Those three steps are broken down, analyzed, weighed, considered, re-evaluated: I'm telling you I made a couple of bucks today from PUA skills, and it was selling cable by phone to a guy in New Mexico (the neg is what brought him in).

People react to stimulus the same way, no matter if you're trying to sleep with them or get them to buy something from you (or give you a raise, or bring you a refill on the coffee).

Be up on yourself.

I'm not into this stuff 'cause I want to fuck hot models (well actually I do, but my wife won't let me) I'm into this stuff because, when I'm up for it, I can inject myself into the human condition and all parties concerned have a positive outcome.

And when that happens, I feel good, and lots of good things fall from that.

ALL the time. Even now.

Title	Seducing everyone 24/7... experience/advice?
Author	LesbianPUA
Upvotes	4
Comments	8
Date	June 7, 2011 3:51 PM UTC (15 years ago)
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