I've been a lurker here on Seddit and I know why: it seems that I am a bit out-of-tune with the aura of /seduction.

The thing is, I'm a "nice guy." I am looking for a nice girl, one with good values and morals, that is looking for love and not lust, and I'm not into one-night stands.. I need to feel love with a girl before I make love to her. I find the sex to be extremely rewarding when you have a partner whom you respect and care for. Otherwise, I do not feel any desire to simply just "get laid."

I'm wondering if there are any tips for us "nice guys," or reading material out there that is geared towards finding lasting love and picking up like-minded "nice girls?"

I just feel so lost entering the dating world again. I lost the love of my life, took a year to get over it, and now I'm hoping to find another good girl, but I just don't know where to start. I don't want to crawl pubs or bars, I don't want to approach random women in public (that's creepy for them), and I honestly just don't know where to begin.

Is there any hope for us nice guys out there?

TL;DR How can a 'nice guy' go about finding a 'nice girl?'