Is there anyone out there that is good with women that actually hates small talk? Hates flirting? And has a way of getting past the first stages of bullshit without having to act like an extrovert?

As a major introvert, I am tired a LOT of the time. Every conversation I have better be meaningful or I have absolutely no interest in it. There is an exception when I am with someone I like and love because the relationship and connection provides the meaning. But flirting with a complete stranger has no connection. It is meaningless blather.

I will never be able to act like I like it. I don't like it. I will never go up and say I like "her style" because that is inauthentic bullshit. Extroverts don't seem to even comprehend there being any problem with it...like the concept of inauthenticity is beyond their comprehension. If you were being truly honest, you would say, "I am attracted to your hip-to-waist ratio as per evolution, and I am going to say I like your 'style' because women respond better to that than complimenting your physique". Saying anything else would be purely for the sake of gaining a positive response. Which is INAUTHENTIC. I've tried acting like an extrovert my entire life. I give up on it.

I think every man in here will tell me that attracting women and being my authentic self is not only possible, but the recommendation. But then there is no advice on how to do it! All of the proceeding advice will be more about chatting up a stranger.

I have made this post before and gotten nowhere. But I will ask once more; How can I turn this: "I like your hip to waist ratio per evolution, and so I would like to get to know you, but not with small talk and fake bullshit to make you like me" --how do I turn that into something effective?

Thanks! With our introverted powers combined...help one of your own!