if you want to know when a woman who you work with wants you to go from friendly banter to actually asking her out on a date then you have to understand indicators of interest... women will send messages to you covertly and its up to you to recognize them and act on it. one of the most powerful signals a women can send is proximity... if a woman finds reasons to put herself around you and reasons to start up conversations with you then she is letting you know she is interested in you and if you don't act on this she will lose interest because she will assume you are not interested or in a relationship.... any questions regarding seduction in the workplace please feel free to ask me i have had 4 successful interactions over the past 3 years