Seduction tips/resources for women?

bethatsocialguy · 2022-01-20T06:47:25+00:00

Being feminine can bring in the masculine energy in a guy. Do not look for the quick solution. It is going to be in the way you carry yourself, act, respond, etc

norwegiandoggo · 2022-01-20T07:11:14+00:00

How do you try to initiate sex?

Did he always have a low interest in sex or is this a more recent thing?

Is he on SSRIs or other libido-reducing meds? Did you gain weight since you started dating?

I'm going to guess that "more seductive behavior" is not the issue here. I think something else is going on. He can't even put his finger on it - meaning he's either in denial about how to really fix it or he doesn't know how to fix it. Could be he has a low sex drive in general, or he's just not that attracted to you and this could be due to your behavior or appearance - hard to tell.

IntelligentUnion9322 · 2022-01-20T08:29:47+00:00

I would say from your other answers that the issue is not on your side. Its stress level + anti-depressant is probably a reason for it.

Keep on communicating with him, ask him what would please him.

How old are you and your partner ? (The situation is probably different if you are in your 20s or in your 50s)

Dehaney123 · 2022-01-20T09:12:57+00:00

Have you tried a bodystocking, you can buy all sorts of colours to suit your appeal. Getting ready as if for a night out but with a twist is very seductive to a man. I also find dressing up to be internally seductive giving me an edge. A cute striptease (maybe burlesque) will get the chemistry going, or him simply finding you baking dressed as such may be what he’s looking for. Teasing and tempting is key xxx

Notascoutstillag · 2022-01-20T14:58:59+00:00

Do you guys ever massage each other? I feel like this is an awful suggestion with the whole Epstein drama lmao but it’s really easy to go from casual to super sexy fast (or slow if that’s what would excite him more)and helps to relax before hand. Also give you the opportunity to climb on top of him without putting any expectations on him initially.

How do you feel about sending racy pictures? Sometimes it’s about getting him aroused when he can’t have it and giving him something to think about while he has to wait.

Some guys like it when women talk like sluts or it can be a super turn off, find out which he is and even if you feel super uncomfortable at first, you don’t have to say thing you don’t mean, lol just tell him what you want/have been thinking about/etc outright if he’s that kind of guy.

I know personal, but you asked, do you suck his dick before he fucks you?

AloofusMaximus · 2022-01-20T15:11:17+00:00

So I'm a big believer in sex drive mismatch, is a huge source of strife in relationships. IE it's NEVER going to work out if you two are too far apart. People don't like to admit this for whatever reason.

We as humans also have a need for novelty, that applies to sex and partners too. Again this is something almost nobody actually wants to admit.

So what is the actual dead bedroom scenario, like he just goes to sleep rather than doing anything sexual? Is he doing a lot of self service/porn?

What things are you doing that he's rebuffing?

KeyboardOperator · 2022-01-20T20:42:52+00:00

Tell him to get his Test levels checked. His libido is probably shot

JacobMoogberg69 · 2022-01-20T12:22:50+00:00

You are not going to like what I have to say, but it works like this. A man's sex drive increase the longer he goes without sex. A woman's sex drive decreases the longer she goes without sex. And inversely, the more a man has sex wjth the same woman, the more his sex drive decreases. For a woman it's the opposite. The more sex she has, the hornier she gets.

The only way to get your man back is to introduce some variety into your sex life and yes, that means other women.

H8beingmale · 2022-01-23T23:56:46+00:00

i assume you are in your 20s

Title	Seduction tips/resources for women?
Author	IntelligentUnion9322
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Date	January 20, 2022 6:42 AM UTC (4 years ago)
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