choosing the girl to approach is not the problem for me, I spent nearly the entirety of club nights talking to various girls. I even cut convos short so that I can talk to more of them ( and to leave them wanting more). My problem is that, I cannot seem to stick to one, I keep entertaining them and honestly end up with not my first choice, rarely my second choice too. I like to keep backup plans and it seems that it is all I can get. looking to see if this has happened to anyone and what to do about it.