Here I will make a list of "to do's" before going on a date

*** groom yourself - get a haircut, or a shape up, evenly trim the beard if you have one, slick the hair back if that's your thing, if you have a man bun make sure it's on point. Sloppiness is a no no

*** dress yourself - if you don't already have some casual dressy clothes, get some. If you have no sense of style, just ask for help, I'd suggest help from either a stylish guy or another female friend. Do not be afraid to try new styles that you haven't before (new is better). Maybe get a few nice solid button up shirts, a blazer in case that's your thing, if your a tee shirt guy, spend the $40 on a quality tee shirt, nothing big or baggy, that style is way gone. Get some solid fit jeans or khaki pants, can never go wrong with black or brown, matches with everything. Buy a decent pair of tennis shoes or maybe even boots if you can pull it off, boots are the new swag right now. Accessories, get a nice watch, it's a must, if you have a necklace or chain, wear it but tuck it in, I'm not talking bling bling blow here, no thick heavy chain outside of the shirt.

*** be clean and smell good - guys, please shower on a daily basis, this goes for just regular hygiene purpose, it's never a good look to shower every couple days and try to hide you stink with insane amounts of cologne and deodorant, trust me they will know, females notice EVERYTHING. Look good smell good is my motto, but naturally, not artificially. Deodorant is a must especially if you are a guy who sweats often, you will be sweating more because your nerves will be running. A spray of some good cologne is always a plus too, not a cologne shower, just 1 spray to add to the sweetness of your swag.

*** have shit to talk about - this may be the most important part of all, make sure you have shit to talk about, you can look as good as brad Pitt but if you sit there like a rock and fumble your words and can't come up with new and interesting things to talk about you are going to be labeled as one of those guys that take selfies with the shirts off showcasing their muscles. If you have to write down things on your phone to talk about and memorize it then do it, she will not know what you did in preparation, but she will see the aftermath, and that is great conversation, interesting topics and you will not get stuck. You might even bring up a topic that she gets excited about and she will do all he talking!! That should buy you a few minutes to think of more shit to say, but make sure you are multitasking and paying attention to her, you don't want her to ask your opinion then you spit out random shit that has nothing to do it's what she was saying, if you can't pay attention, her attention will drift as well. Talk to yourself in the mirror, we all do it, there will be no one there to judge you, practice makes perfect. Remember SMILE!