Seriously, what stuff ACTUALLY WORKS?

9874123987456321 · 2017-09-16T22:52:10+00:00

Patience. But I can see you dont have it. It takes a lot of guys a year of going out 4 days a week to start getting real succes.

SinSlayer · 2017-09-16T23:44:43+00:00

Here are some specifics that may help:

1) Stop focusing on trying to fuck hot girls. You sound shallow and desperate.

2) When you see a woman you find attractive, make eye contact and smile. If she smiles back, approach.

3) When you approach, ask her name and give her a firm handshake when you say hers. Repeat her name three times. "Hey. What's your name? Kelly. Well Kelly, it's nice to meet you. Kelly, Im Sinslayer."

4) If you compliment her, compliment something specific and NON-PHYSICAL. If she has beautiful eyes, she knows. If she has a great smile, she's been told. If she has huge breasts, it's not a secret. Compliment her hair, or clothes, or shoes, or make-up... something she was responsible for. It'll be more genuine and less likely to be something she's heard a thousand times before.

5) Ask her five questions about herself. Nothing too personal, but nothing generic either. Try "If I pulled up netflix on your phone, what would it ask me to "continue watching".

6) Make a joke about one of the answers.

7) Use kino to gauge interest. Touch her a few times then stop and see if she touches you. If she does, she interested.

8) Make the appropriate close.

9) If you #-close, offer a hug.

10) CALL HER. I cannot stress this enough. One phone call trumps a thousand texts msgs. Im not saying "don't text", but I'm saying a phone conversation is much better at building rapport and intimacy.

11) Don't ask her to go on a date. Invite her to join you for day/night out.

12) Make her WANT to go out with you, touch you, kiss you, sleep with you.

13) Let her.

DavidGolani11 · 2017-09-17T00:28:30+00:00

PUA is a scam and pickup artist gurus are scammers, 100% of all the "success" guys have in real life is not the methods but the fact they actually started talking to girls after all the money they forked over for the material.

I will save you $3000 and a boring 7-day rote seminar: Talk to girls. They really want us to.

DaygameCoach · 2017-09-17T00:43:27+00:00

Sure. Art of Seduction by Robert Greene. Superflirt, Superdate helped with body language.

Elijah2798 · 2017-09-16T23:32:43+00:00

Go out and just say "Hi". Talk to women like nomal human beings. Fuck the other BS that you read on here, you dont need to be overly funny and witty. All you need is a "hey"

waira23 · 2017-09-17T04:53:11+00:00

I will say was in your position before, and trust me there is stuff that works. There are proven systems that work, dont use tricks use systems. making a woman fall in love with you is a process that takes 3 main steps. 1. Attraction, this is playful bantering mentality which should happen right when you meet with a woman. 2, Rapport, this is where you develop rapport with a woman, skip this and she wont open legs for you, cause she wont trust you. 3, Seduction, this is where you go right for her and make sexual moves, touch her and do anything with her. If you want a detailed system get this book. http://www.amazon.com/dp/B0758W2TC7

NoRiceForP · 2017-09-17T23:48:48+00:00

Don't focus on flirting. Have a good and fun conversation about your life and her life. Keep those RSD tricks in the back of your head because they'll be helpful when certain situations come up. However your focus should be, "Hey you are an interesting person and I want to know more about you!" Not, "I'm going to push your buttons to make you want to have sex with me."

Title	Seriously, what stuff ACTUALLY WORKS?
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Date	September 16, 2017 10:39 PM UTC (8 years ago)
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