Hey guys, so first, thanks for all the input everyone has giving me lately. I think the biggest eye opener is that these 'gimicky' techniques that are stereotyped amongst pua indeed made me skeptical at first. But more importantly, the resources, community, and help made me realize that approaching and talking with women is hugely a mindgame I've put upon myself.

In the past few weeks, I've been reading 'Book of Pook' in tandem with community resources to prevent myself from that fear of 'failing'. But one thing that's changed immensely is the idea that it's okay to fail, but just fail and attempt again with bigger confidence/ammunition from learning experience (via resources+experience). So in the past few days, I've approached several women. I have failed most of them, but I'm still happy for trying it. I've kept snowballing that momentum and yesterday was a success for me in that I've stopped caring how others perceive around me even if I fail. i.e. A girl walked past me to say hi and I've let out all of my desire (but not in needy way as Pook advise) in a simple hello. However, I realized that I went full throttle with my intent because today, that same girl approached me again hoping for a similar response, and that fire in me just vaporized. It was very sad because I even approached another girl, and I reverted almost back to this 'nice guy' (I'm disgusted with myself for being a wimp). But my question is this, in Pook's book, he advises to talking with girls like you would with any guy. To have fun out of it, and not care at all about the interaction. That everything "I" should do, should be focused on my desire and my excitement (Essentially my world). But I am still really new to this 'sexualizing' show myself as a man to woman approach. How do I go about making sure 'she knows i'm a man' and also then 'having fun' with a guy. Am I missing something here in the idea that 'having fun' is having fun with her as a woman, or as another dude/person. When do I convey this sexual intent?