She is interested in me… now what?

Tough_Attention3598 · 2024-04-12T04:47:27+00:00

Just be yourself man. Be the person you know you are, because she is interested in that version of you. Don’t think you’re the only one with the pressure also, she’s probably thinking some of the same things with the same worries.

ROBYoutube · 2024-04-12T05:42:57+00:00

You should learn to embrace discomfort. In the right measure and for the right amount of time, discomfort means you're being challenged to grow and adapt.

I've lived about half of a human life span, and nearly all of my most entertaining stories and anecdotes are of the times in my life when I struggled and eventually succeeded. My very best stories are where I struggled, and failed. Who wants to hear that I went on a holiday to the beach and had a real nice time? My ma, my closest of friends, but that's it. Nobody else gives a fuck. Discomfort is where life is at.

mendyourgarden · 2024-04-12T04:36:27+00:00

Do you think it's because you're celebrating early? If yes, then don't do it until the end goal is achieved

Dumbass1171 · 2024-04-12T05:05:38+00:00

I mean if it’s easy for you to attract girls initially often, then do it frequently. Eventually you’ll learn to not be weird after that initial phase. If there are a lot of girls in your area, this shouldn’t be too much of a problem. This is a skill you learn with practice

johnnys6guns · 2024-04-12T04:31:26+00:00

How weird do you get? Do you have a history of relationship problems with women in your personal life ie family?

Dandys3107 · 2024-04-12T07:15:39+00:00

Come closer, look her in the eyes, smile. It feels like you are self-sabotaging yourself, being afraid of going into next step. Realise that you want to get intimate with the girl and reach for your prize.

Wolffrank_ · 2024-04-12T09:15:04+00:00

We are one and the same 🥲

tommy0mega · 2024-04-12T06:44:04+00:00

Ah thee old self sabotage. Possibly happens from an innate fear that you’re not good enough. You think she’s going to be disappointed when she really gets to know you. My advice, be happy with you first. Also, you seem young. You have the potential to have several women come in to your life when it’s all said and done. Have fun with girls being in to you! Don’t take things so seriously. If she’s in to you, she’s in to you. No need to live up to anything other than what she already sees. Good luck!

Miguell7 · 2024-04-12T15:06:05+00:00

Get in the same position so many times that it starts becoming normal

IChoseBeHappy · 2024-04-13T13:09:13+00:00

I understand what u mean , its like u be urself and then once the person show she's attracted to you you become self aware and be affraid of doing the wrong thing and eff up this is where the eff up happen tbh

Minute_Abroad_8105 · 2024-04-12T18:05:41+00:00

Calm down take a breathe slow your mind. The studder comes from your mind racibg to find something to say next

Affectionate-Ant4888 · 2024-04-12T19:48:25+00:00

now you must build attraction, arousal and then if you play cards well it's ready set go, one doesn't mean the other and she can be in either state at once, women are interesting creatures.

Westernation · 2024-04-12T23:15:13+00:00

You need to throw her on the midnight train to Poundtown 😈

Title	She is interested in me… now what?
Author	MentalResort1205
Upvotes	33
Comments	21
Date	April 12, 2024 4:13 AM UTC (2 years ago)
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