She replied after following up but…

seduction-ModTeam · 2025-07-27T16:15:30+00:00

This post had to be taken down because it appears to be focused on a specific situation or person. While Field Reports deal with specific situations and people, remember that the focus is different:

A field report explains a lesson learned or demonstrates a Seduction concept.
If the point of this post is asking how to get that specific girl, it is out of bounds except in a Basic Questions Thread.

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Smitty-TBR2430 · 2025-07-26T03:07:36+00:00

Forget her, she’s granola.
(Nuts & flakes.)

ProofDazzling9234 · 2025-07-26T04:56:30+00:00

if she's crazy cute, she matched with 2000 dudes, some of which are willing to take her for a shopping weekend in Paris all expenses paid. Get to the back of the line homie.

smind893 · 2025-07-26T05:38:20+00:00

Sorry, but a lot of this advice is too full of ego.

Consider this

Women aren't on dating apps cause they dont have options , but because they want new options.

As a new option, you can't live with entitlement. Yes, in a perfect world, you two matching should give you a good start, or her following up with a question should lead to a natural rapport where you end up hanging out.

This is not a perfect world, so take your small victories and focus on others until the next step comes up.

Next time a woman pops up with a question amd/or answer to a text/message you sent days, weeks, months ago, simply answer it.

None of this "oh you remembered me" or other passive aggressive little boy energy or immediate availability to see her!

You're a man!

The reply should have been "hey. The coffee shop I go to is xyz, I love their XYZ special. Enjoy"

That's it. You're busy, you're not bitter, you have experiences, which is what this reply says.

Don't answer right away, but definitely the same day. Then let it be.

Her reaching out means you left an impression, and that is the small victory you build off of.

Don't try to create your own wins, she just gave you one.

Good luck.

chi9sin · 2025-07-26T04:27:38+00:00

wait another month and follow up with a dinner recommendation, it should work.

Ivancz · 2025-07-26T03:18:19+00:00

what the hell are you even doing posting this?

the answer is obvious.

follow up with “Good heavens! I think you didn’t saw my last message, maybe your notifications suddenly turned off? If you need tech help with that I can totally help you whenever you want. If you saw this message just send me a “ . ” this way I can make sure you saw it. I hope you have a jolly good day! Goodbye! H.. Hey.. Listen… Forget it, have a fantastic day. You’re priceless, never forget that. Goodbye!”

Title	She replied after following up but…
Author	uzsspace
Upvotes	1
Comments	14
Date	July 26, 2025 2:26 AM UTC (1 year ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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