She said YES! now what?

TheXXL · 2019-04-01T08:23:38+00:00

First off, congrats for making things happen.

Now... You probably think you have to do certain things and other strategies, but truth is : The best you can do is to relax. She might be hot and ho you call "marvelous", but this is very unlikely the case. The sooner you get that thinking out of your head, the better for you. She is a girl, she is attractive to you, she might even have a nice personality as far as you know, but this is the thing, you don't really know her, so don't attribute all the best things to her, after all she might be an asshole, it is up to you to find out if she is what you actually seek. This is important, since this way you make her live up to your expectations instead of you trying to live up to some expectations she might have of you.

That said, you don't care if she flakes, since if she does, she wasn't interested in the first place, and would disqualify herself anyways (why would you want to be with someone who has no respect for you?). You have set up time and place to meet, and if not, do that. Until then, you simply have your busy life. Back in the days when I was a teenager we didn't have Internet or smartphones, it was normal not to constantly talk, when I wanted to meet someone, we made up a time and place and they either showed up or not.

If you just want to be sure not to be flaked on, then I can only tell you this: you can't be sure. Never. You make sure you are there on time, and if she shows up, you also make sure that you don't get into your head, and escalate! Escalate, escalate, escalate.... This way you might end up in bed with her.

Good luck!

carlsberg24 · 2019-04-01T09:45:04+00:00

You don't have to do anything in the meantime. Confirm the day before that she is still going. There is a good chance she will flake so always be mentally ready for that.

Title	She said YES! now what?
Author	iliketorunn
Upvotes	1
Comments	5
Date	April 1, 2019 7:57 AM UTC (7 years ago)
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