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[–]grrinchas 2 points3 points4 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Personally these things drives me crazy (in a good way) in a women:
If you can manage display all those things, you will have any man you want.
Things to avoid:
Displaying intellect, independence, all manly sports, all feminism bullshit.
[–]InPrivate24 1 point2 points3 points 6 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
Well, if we are talking about when you already started dating, then the following are some good things to get the guy hooked:
Flirting: Focus on body language. If you like to use verbal flirting, then do so subtly and at your discretion. However, body language is the key to flirting. Eye contact is amazing, especially being from female to male. One action that I consider as perfect would be for you to get close to the guy, almost chest to chest, and look into his eyes. If you are smalley than him, then thats good, but if not just try to make yourself seem smaller. I dont know all the scientific reasons why this works, but I believe its because you are giving both a sense of submission due to being lower than them but at the same time giving off a sense of control and authority due to you being so close and maintaining eye contact. This will usually take the guy off guard, and maybe even turn him on. I also recommend not smiling when doing this, if you want to show some sexuality of course. Also, by not smiling, I mean have a neutral face, that really works wonders. If the say something like "What are you doing?" or "What?", I recommend for you to just give him a quick look over his body (and maybe even give him a small smirk) and then take a step back and continue like nothing happened.
Clothing: Less is more. You should not reveal too much of your skin, after all you dont want to spoil the movie before he gets to watch it, am I right? *wink wink* Anyways, I recommed to wear red or black or a mix of both. What type of clothing to actually wear is up to you and the situation.
Text: Give him attention, ask him a lot of questions about his life, seem interested on everything about him. Then stop. Stop giving him that attention for a short while, maybe two days or three. Then slowly creep back to him.
I hope this helps, if you have any more question feel free to ask.
[–]scorpio-mood 0 points1 point2 points 6 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
That’s great. Thank you.
How can I flirt using body language if we’re sitting apart (seated opposite each other at a restaurant for example)?
I’ll maintain eye contact and occasionally brush my leg up and down his while he’s talking to catch him off guard, but is there anything else I can do?
[–]InPrivate24 0 points1 point2 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Doing subtle flirty actions like what you said are great, but if you want to take it a bit farther I recommend to look at his lips for a couple of seconds and then continue with what you were doing. If you want to take thing even farther, then biting you bottom lip is the best way, BUT make sure you have his attention first and make it seem natural, its important not to overdo that one if you are flirting.
[–]bradpiff0 0 points1 point2 points 6 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Be feminine, the end.
[–]scorpio-mood 1 point2 points3 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
What constitutes feminine in your eyes?
[–]ModeratorCaptain_w00t 0 points1 point2 points 6 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
the feeling of control over a man is completely addictive What can I do to drive a man crazy in the early stages of dating?
the feeling of control over a man is completely addictive
What can I do to drive a man crazy in the early stages of dating?
can you elaborate? because it sounds a bit scary. that's because, at first glance, I'd reply that you need to find a man with a needy mindset :-)
I also think that going crazy is almost never something healthy, especially in the first stages. So, if you achieve to drive someone crazy for you quickly, it might not end that well, it just might be ok if you're looking for trophies and boost self-esteem in the short term.
Sorry, I should have clarified that I’m not looking for a long term relationship. This is all in terms of casual dating.
[–]ModeratorCaptain_w00t 0 points1 point2 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Well, I don’t think it changes my answer.
In casual dating a healthy, non-needy man usually takes it for what it is: casual dating, casual sex.
If he losts control anyway, then it’s either one of the two: - you manipulated him, maybe for ego-boost? - he’s needy as fuck, and generally this is a huge turn-off
The third option is that he’s playing a game better than you. I did this once (well, more than once, but I’m referring to a case where I exaggerated a bit too much) when I was younger, it didn’t end well for her, because I broke up after some month while she felt in love for 2 years. Then I learned to not do it again because I don’t want to hurt women with those “weapons of mass seduction” ;-)
[–]Umbran_scale 0 points1 point2 points 6 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
Depends on what kind of man you want to drive crazy, as the saying goes, one man's trash is another man's treasure so maybe specify what kind you're looking for?
I suppose the kind of man I usually go after is leaning more towards the FWB or even LTR end or the spectrum, not someone who’s just looking for an easy one night stand. As I said, I like the game, so I usually go on a few dates with him to build the excitement, then have sex and maybe hang out for a few more weeks before moving on.
[–]Umbran_scale 0 points1 point2 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Don't know why you want to drive a FWB mad for you as that kind of beats the purpose, but then again, I wouldn't know how to drive that kind of person crazy in the first place cuz I'm the furthest thing away from those types of guys and I particularly hate playing 'the game' anyway.
The thing with the type you're looking for is you're competing against other women that those men will be looking to date and if they're willing to give it up before you are, you'll probably find yourself getting dropped and ghosted in favour of them, more often than not so you can't be leading them on for too long.
FWB is just that, you're friends who fuck, there's no ulterior motive or underlying affection. Maybe seek out some of your own guy friends and ask them if they're willing?
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