I'm tired of it. Are there women out there who don't shit test?

I just broke up with my ex because of it and I've told her that I won't put up with it yet she waited months and did it anyway.

Question 1. Why do guys put up with it? All I saw on my Google search is "How to pass shit tests blah blah blah...." Well I don't want to pass any of it, it's not worth it for me to be with someone who will disrespect me on the whim and just offer me pussy and validation for my self respect. Have every guy out there lost their manhood to put up with this shit?

Question 2. Are there any decent women out there who won't shit test? Please spare me the evolutionary biology b.s of women have to test a man's strength to see if he's a viable partner. We don't live in caveman days, I don't club woman over the head and pull them into my cave. Are women ever going to evolve past their shitty behavior?

Finally, I've passed every shit test thrown my way by walking but unfortunately I don't like taking exams that I never signed up for. Do I have to sacrifice my self respect just to be with a woman? Does any man out there even think like I do? Btw, the girl I just broke up with was a Hot Blonde 9 so it wasn't easy.