Should I be worried?

AngryFeet · 2011-11-21T00:04:27+00:00

Even when I was in a relationship I always kept up on Seduction boards. I took the things that people said girls loved, and I used them on my girlfriend which strengthened our relationship. It also just helped me understand her better in general. Thats why I did it at least, can't talk for him.

hawktalk · 2011-11-21T01:30:10+00:00

To remind himself to be the guy that got you in the first place.

Plus, some of the posts here are just interesting and funny anyway.

rjbman · 2011-11-21T01:30:26+00:00

For me, while it's interesting and helpful to read all of the stuff, the main reason I do this is for confidence and inner game.

YeOldeThrowaway · 2011-11-21T02:38:14+00:00

I find a lot of the Seddit principles are great for self-improvement in general, and the psychology of some of it fascinates me. That being said you should talk to him about it.

espanabarca · 2011-11-21T05:26:52+00:00

Social upper hand, at least for me. It's not all about getting laid in my case. It's about understanding others and appearing friendly and likable. Can't speak for your bf though.

frogma · 2011-11-21T05:38:33+00:00

Most of the guys who are in a relationship aren't using the community as a way to meet new girls- they're using it to help them get better with the girls they're with. I know of a handful who are using it outside of that, but 99% of them are in open relationships.

Overall, you probably have nothing to worry about, and if you trust him, there's almost a 100% chance he's only here so he can figure out how to make your relationship better. If it means anything, I know I'd still be on here if I got an exclusive girlfriend.

Edit: Just to add, a lot of people seem to think r/relationships or r/relationship_advice are better places to go for when you're in a relationship. I've lurked in those subreddits before and that's just fuckin stupid. Those subreddits suck dick compared to ours, because most of the advice is coming from people who have little to no experience, as well as the fact that they haven't read any material that's tailored to this sort of thing. Seddit is just as helpful for relationships as it is for getting sex or getting a girlfriend. Almost all of the concepts are still applicable.

MidnightThunderboy · 2011-11-21T16:13:02+00:00

"Do you understand the second you look in the mirror and you're happy with what you see, baby, you just lost the battle."

Dr Cox

Title	Should I be worried?
Author	oftwominds
Upvotes	3
Comments	7
Date	November 20, 2011 11:02 PM UTC (14 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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