I've been watching a lot of pickup videos recently and one thing I noticed is regardless of the styles they all. talk. like. this.

It is nerve wracking to talk to a woman for the first time, so our natural tendency is to speed up out speech so we can get everything in. But the best PUAs talk like they don't have a care in the world, and are in no rush to impress the girl.

So next time you approach be conscious of this fact and slow. down. your. speech.