Hello, Seddit. I'm sorry I snubbed you a while back. I went through my oneitis the hard way and here I am!

For the last year, I've been working on approaching people, building confidence and making friends. If I look at myself one year ago from today, I've made great leaps in simple social interaction with both men and women. I'm dressing better, caring more about my health, etc...

However, I need advice, a kick in the ass or something. I seem to be charismatic, people like me, been told that I'm handsome, but several of my friends have come forward and told me that my naive and somewhat PG-13 lifestyle is preventing me from stepping up my game. They also tell me, to my slight disbelief, that women have been hitting on me for a while, that I'm quite good-looking and that I've lost my chances with a few, because of my oblivious nature. I've not read the social cues, or as I've come to understand them, IOI's, properly. Perhaps this something that will disappear if I strictly focus on attracting women, though, when I do, my old Christian sensibilities crack through and I get tongue-tied, unassuming, etc.

Do I just need practice, practice, practice or are there some social cues that I should be looking for in particular? I just feel like I'm that guy that doesn't know what's going on until a woman grabs his package.

Edit: After a bit more reading, I suppose my characteristics would lend their hand at me being a GGG, which is what I'd want.