Soft text opener

Fabulous_Papaya358 · 2024-03-20T21:04:29+00:00

Shit man you need better game

jimifresh · 2024-03-20T21:15:24+00:00

Officially unsubbing. What in the fuck is this weird shit? Who are you texting this to? You are not ready for women lol.

773unknown · 2024-03-20T23:09:30+00:00

How do u find somebodys phone number randomly bro lmao

iiTryhard · 2024-03-20T21:59:36+00:00

You’re legit better off just saying “hey” than whatever trash this is

RedBedBull · 2024-03-20T22:29:01+00:00

I don't think it's good and the main issue is that it doesn't build trust and lacks credibility. But you seem to be convinced that it's good so all the best to you

ZoddOfHolyLand · 2024-03-24T23:52:16+00:00

Since everyone is being a dickhead and not helping you I got you “wtf, this (thing that made you think of her) made me think about you, tell me why that is haha” The “tell me why that is” if the thing that made you think about her is positive like a show or food will get her to respond and tell you or she’ll say “idk” even then you’re still in the clear for conversation.

tfd543 · 2024-03-20T22:23:38+00:00

It will not be a magical door opener, but it's not that bad either.

What's good about it:

it creates the impression, that it's not forced
it's not overused like "Hey", therefore it seems more natural
it's low effort and therefore seems confident
it's incomplete and therefore creates the need to understand what is going on. They want to know what you mean by "i found you"
women dream of a guy they run into by chance, the word "randomly" triggers that fantasy

norwegiandoggo · 2024-03-20T22:28:16+00:00

The proof of a good message is whether it works. Not whether it seems good in theory. Practice beats theory any day of the week. I've done so much weird shit that people would look at and say is "terrible game" - yet it has worked for some strange reason I don't always understand. So if this opener works for you, keep using it and thanks for sharing! I do think the message has some good qualities. It seems very low effort and that can display non-neediness. It also leaves an "open loop" - an unanswered question. What do you mean you "found her randomly?" It's strange. It sparks curiosity. Maybe she wonders if you know her from before or what you mean by it.

YellowCosmicWarrior · 2024-03-20T23:49:21+00:00

But my name isn't Randomly...

Make it more personal. Presentation, behaviour, character or anything that she can control. Not her looks only.

Rob775533 · 2024-03-20T23:14:56+00:00

When you say text opener, I'm assuming you mean you're messaging on social media. I think you'd be better off saying something like;

'Hi. I love your style.'

'You have a beautiful selfie collection.'

'Your (insert pet/hobby) is awesome. How'd you get started?'

This way, you're telling her you're interested in a more conversational and playful manner.

What you're currently doing relies entirely on her finding you physically attractive enough from a first impression to continue messaging.

Title	Soft text opener
Author	tfd543
Upvotes	0
Comments	16
Date	March 20, 2024 8:46 PM UTC (2 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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