Some cool little tricks in this thread.. could definitely be used in seduction.

frogma · 2011-12-05T06:02:45+00:00

This was linked to the same day it was posted, but I'll allow it because I want to toot my own horn here:

That main response about "basking" or whatever is something I always tell people to try if they have problems with AA. It's not a cure-all, but if you do it right, it'll hopefully overexpose you to awkward situations, making it that much easier to not only handle those awkward situations, but any more "normal" situation.

I would go to malls/quad/cafeteria (and sometimes still do) and just say really weird shit to people. Then when they react awkwardly like I'm a freak, I revel in it. It's an inside joke between me and myself, so I can just laugh about it and laugh at how insecure these other people are that they can't handle awkward situations (granted, if a random guy did the same to me, I'd probably freak out maybe half the time).

My friends and I grew up doing shit like that just because it was our style of humor. I'd make mixtapes of the cheesiest songs (think "It's Raining Men," Britney Spears/Nsync, Power Rangers theme song) and I'd blast em from the car stereo and just rock out to em while the other drivers (like at a stoplight or wherever) were wondering what the fuck was going on. Or I'll walk down the street or in a mall and start singing Christmas songs (not around Christmastime).

Or a more legit way to get that same state going is while you're headed over to the bar (or wherever), randomly high-five people, yell shit (something as simple as "What's UP!!!") to people. Try to get people to join in on your awesomeness. And if they happen to respond negatively/weirdly to it, either just ignore em or purposely create an even more awkward situation, just to fuck with em. It's so much fun and so easy. Then when you actually get to the bar (or wherever), just be cool- or if you want, keep being crazy; it doesn't matter. Either way, it's just gonna be that much easier to open normally and have a less-awkward conversation.

Edit: And you'd be surprised at how often you get a positive response where people join in on your awesomeness (especially if you're headed to a bar and you're passing all these semi-drunk people who are also out partying- I meet a lot of people by doing that. It's especially useful at the end of the night if you're still looking for something to do. Find a group, be cool/crazy with them, and then just walk with em for a bit and get yourself invited to wherever they're headed. It's easy as shit).

ShamwowTseDung · 2011-12-05T07:04:55+00:00

11k comments...mind specifying a bit?

dejust · 2011-12-05T14:23:34+00:00

Thanks for linking this. Basically those tips are about how the human mind works, so it definitely has a place in seddit.

Title	Some cool little tricks in this thread.. could definitely be used in seduction.
Author	nextAccount
Upvotes	10
Comments	6
Date	December 5, 2011 4:03 AM UTC (14 years ago)
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