Lately I feel like girls are not interested in me at all. When I go out with friends, even girls who I think are below my standard do not want me.

I have some close friends. They all say I am a good looking guy and that a lot of girls are looking at me in the club. And that when I make eye contact I give of "dont even speak to me" vibes. This story is exactly what all mg friends say separately from each other.

I have a totally different experience. I know I am reserved guy but I feel like I am dancing and having a good time. Whem I make eye contact I smile and dance. But stil I remain unsuccesful and they kiss and dance with boys who I think look less then me. So something is going wrong. This something I hear from my exes as well. All my exes started flirting with me and told me aferwards they had no idea at all if liked them or not. How can I feel like I am being so open and yet I come of like a super close and not approachable guy.

I want to change this but I dont know how.