Imo, there's nothing worse than a man who puts chasing women above all else in life. I know lots of guys like this and I've had to distance myself from some friends because of it. It is seriously weird to interact with these guys, since they have no goals or aspirations beyond getting girls, they also lack any kind of boundaries, in between meeting women they do absolutely nothing.

Because of this, they latch onto you for everything, I'm constantly left asking myself "Does this guy not have anything else going on in his life?" or "Why the fuck is he always messaging me, does he not have stuff to do?".

If I'm thinking that as a guy, imagine what women think. Look, people aren't dumb, we all know that there is always things to do, something that you have been neglecting or something that needs to get done. Women are no different, when you latch onto them and give them all your attention because you aren't addressing those things, they know.

When you have boundaries that stem from goals you are trying to achieve, like refusing to stay up late because you know you need to get up early for a run. It's a massive turn-on for her and she might even test your resolve by trying to seduce you back into bed when you get up at 5am to go run 6 miles. She wants you to tell her no, to maintain your boundary and stay on your path so she knows that there really is nothing that will stop you from achieving your goal.

When she takes the place of those goals, there's no chance that you are telling her no or setting a boundary because she is more of a priority than your goals. If she can sway you, anyone can and you will never achieve the things you want to.

You need to take some time to really detail what your goals are and how that translates to what you need to do in a day. Once you have figured that out, you can identify the boundaries that you need to set to achieve those things, she fits in around those.

Start living like that and watch how women change the way they treat you. There was a girl I worked with who was wild, she'd always get way too drunk and run off causing trouble while we were out. One night, we're going to the club with friends and she decides that she is driving us there after having a few drinks, she tries to run off towards her car and I literally take her and tell her, "Look, what the fuck are you doing, your not driving anywhere, cut this shit out!". It was the first time I had ever really talked to a really gorgeous girl in that way, I remember after I said that her face was like :o followed by a little smirk, I genuinely think no guy has ever said anything like that to her and it definitely turned her on a lot.

Obviously thats an extreme but I think that is how things should go even if she says something that you disagree with, openly being able to say, "Nah, I don't agree with you" or "No, I don't want to do that" or "I think your wrong" or "Why do you think that?" will make her respect you a lot more and feel more attraction for you.